Dreamy wedding ideas!

So as I wrote on the 2011 boards I need some ideas for my 11/11 wedding at Villa. I want it to be unique and beautiful! I want to add some touches that noone else has done within a decent price range of course. I love the dark reds and black and white damask look. I would love if past Villa brides did something similar to that. I'm trying to figure out what color lighting I want and ambiance. I want the room to be transformed into a relaxed almost lounge look but also not to serious. Any ideas ladies!!! I know you are all soo creative and helpful!!