Dress Question UPDATE: IT WAS NEVER ORDERED!!!!!!

I was just wondering if any of you ladies were also still waiting for your dress to come in? Every time I speak with the place I ordered it from I get a different answer on when it should be in. When I ordered they said it had a shipping date of June 20th. It was then supposed to arrive in July, then August, then last week, and still nothing. I keep getting different answers.

I am just worried because you hear stories about it being ordered wrong and I also lost a lot of weight since they measured me. What if they can't take it in that much? Also when would you start panicking and look for a back up dress? I only have 7 weeks left.

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Update:
Yes, that's right...it was never ordered. My step mom lives right by the place and since it would be a 40 minute drive for me to go in myself she went in soon after my original post in September. The owner could not provide any proof that it had been ordered and said she would call the manufacturer the next day when the place was open to find out what was going on. I was then told it would ship September 28th and arrive a few days later.

Yesterday we still did not hear from them so my step mom went back in and the owner told her the order was never placed in the first place! She blamed it on a former employee. So who was answering my e-mails since July saying each time that it was due to come in that following week each time? Why was it not shipped out on the 28th either? I can never get a straight answer.

She said it was shipping overnight yesterday and would be in by tomorrow at the latest and if not I will get a full refund. Ladies I am freaking out. I was so sick from all of this that I couldn't even go into work today. I can't even sleep. Does anyone know of places I can buy a dress off of the rack if this place doesn't pull through? How can a dress be overnighted if the order was never placed to begin with? I know dresses take months to come in. I will be at the one month tomorrow. How could this store do this! I also bought my headpiece, veil, shoes, and earrings to match this dress. I bought them from other places so it's not like I can get my money back from that too and that was hundreds of dollars added together. I am at a loss.