Dress Question, updated with pics

I am worried about my dress again I don't know why I have had such a hard time with this.

Here is the story: I ordered a dress in June, then I already did one re-select ( I was only allowed to pick from the same designer I ordered because the first dress I ordered had already gone into production). Now, I am unsure about the new dress and I cannot get the first dress from Kleinfelds (a completely different designer) I loved out of my head. The reason I didn't get the first dress was because I was just afraid that I was making a decision too quickly and I wanted to look around more. But now, I think I am willing to lose the deposit on the dress I ordered to get the original dress that I loved at Kleinfelds but I am really unsure what to do now. Plus I would lose a pretty large deposit on my first dress since I wouldn't even be able to order the same dress.

I am trying to find someone to go back to see both dresses again with me but its tough because my bridesmaids now want to kill me since I have been really indecisive about this. I am seriosuly afriad to tell people about this, especially my mom.

What would you guys do? I need you guys to be completely honest Am I being crazy?

ETA to add pictures of both dresses, the second one is the one that I have ordered, the first is from Kleinfelds

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

ETA: You are GLOWING in the pic of the dress you bought. It looks stunning on you. I think you made the right choice.

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

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i agree, but go with a bm thats not totally fed up with you at this point lol

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Posted by Jna2010

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

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i agree, but go with a bm thats not totally fed up with you at this point lol

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eta: i honestly like the one you ordered better

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Posted by Jna2010

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

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i agree, but go with a bm thats not totally fed up with you at this point lol

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eta: i honestly like the one you ordered better

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ITA on all points. I think the bodice on the 2nd one looks nicer on you and I really like the detail.

i would just go to kleinfelds to try on the dress...you may realize its not the dress for you and realize you love the one you ordered. but if u do end up loving it i would say order it bc u want to be happy with the dress


if you can't find anyone to go to kleinfelds with...i am in the city and would be happy to meet you there...ill give you my honest opinions

kiki- stop stressing!

The dress you ordered is gawgous, and looks AMAZING on you.

BUT, as a precautionary measure, I agree with the other girls....go try them both on agian.

Let us know how you make out!!

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

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i agree, but go with a bm thats not totally fed up with you at this point lol

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eta: i honestly like the one you ordered better

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ITA on all points. I think the bodice on the 2nd one looks nicer on you and I really like the detail.

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ITA with that!!!!! i think you made the right choice by ordering the second one!

I don't wanna be a downer but... I kinda like the bodice on the first one better.
I think the 2nd looks amazing on you though. They both look amazing on you (yeah.. not a big help, I know)

I would go back and try them both on. If you can maybe bring your MOH and say 'your gonna kill me..... but can you come with me again? I REALLY value your decision and I need major help'. Imo, the moh has to deal with a little more from the bride then the BM's.

$ is of course an issue but in the end you don't want to be questioning yourself and thinking 'what if'.

They are both beautiful dresses. I love how you look in both. But the second dress looks amazing on you. But if you are uncertain definitely try to go back and try on both.

Thank you for all of your advice, I know that I am a little crazy!

I think I am going to go to Kleinfelds this weekend with a Bridesmaid to try it on, then Im going to go to LI totry on my original dress (no store has both dresses so I can't try them on at the same place). I really don't want to lose all the money!

girl!!! if you need to, go back and try them both on again. but honestly, i love the one you picked better

try to remember how you FELT when you had on the dresses. not just how it looks in pictures. i rememebr your post saying how much you felt that the dress you ordered was the one

i know its scary to make a big decision. (i am kinda scared to see the dress i ordered again!!). but honestly, it looks gorgeous and you look amazing

i like the detail on teh second dress more than the boning of the first (if that makes sense)

Both dresses are very pretty, but the one you ordered the detailing on it is beautiful. I would stick with that one. I mean it was the first one you chose after all You're going to start driving yourself crazy second guessing yourself.

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would say go back with a BM don't tell your mom yet but do it quickly. Go see both gowns and see how each makes you feel. Then decide from there. I am sure both dresses are gorgeous and look beautiful on you.

I wouldn't wait to much longer though.

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i agree, but go with a bm thats not totally fed up with you at this point lol

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eta: i honestly like the one you ordered better

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ITA on all points. I think the bodice on the 2nd one looks nicer on you and I really like the detail.

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ITA with that!!!!! i think you made the right choice by ordering the second one!

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me too!!!

I love the dress you ordered - but you have to do what is in your heart!
and then stop looking!!!