Dumb Question about shower

every1 who is invited to the wedding should get a shower invite.


if youre cool with fhs friends gfs and wives then deffff invite them


i invited them and i invited fh's gal pals also.


as far as your moms coworkers.. i dont thinks he shoudl invite them if shes not inviting them to the wedding.

only invite them if they're invited to the wedding
im doing fhs friends who are girls bc i hang out with them a lot too and hes known most of them since he was about 5

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Posted by grkbarbie

do u think the party store has ribbon by the way???? i forgot ribbon for a shower gift and the shower is in 1.5 hrs dshfksdhfkjdshfkjdshfkjdshfkjhdskhfsj

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lol..they def have ribbon!!

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Posted by grkbarbie

do u think the party store has ribbon by the way???? i forgot ribbon for a shower gift and the shower is in 1.5 hrs dshfksdhfkjdshfkjdshfkjdshfkjhdskhfsj

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The one on Utopia? Probably but I hate them and never go there, go to Rite Aid!

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Posted by grkbarbie

every1 who is invited to the wedding should get a shower invite.

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That's not necessarily true. I'm not inviting GF's of FH's friends that I wouldn't hang out with otherwise. Like one of his former co-workers is invited with his girlfriend to the wedding. But I'm not inviting the GF to my shower. I've met her once. There's another girl, who is another of FH's old co-workers who is invited to the wedding, but honestly I can't stand her, so she's not invited to my shower either.

I say family, BP, friends of yours, and any of FH's friends that you are close with.

only invite if they are invited to the wedding

you dont have to invite FH's people who you are not close to but you can if you want to

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Posted by Lsorrent

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Posted by grkbarbie

every1 who is invited to the wedding should get a shower invite.

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That's not necessarily true. I'm not inviting GF's of FH's friends that I wouldn't hang out with otherwise. Like one of his former co-workers is invited with his girlfriend to the wedding. But I'm not inviting the GF to my shower. I've met her once. There's another girl, who is another of FH's old co-workers who is invited to the wedding, but honestly I can't stand her, so she's not invited to my shower either.

I say family, BP, friends of yours, and any of FH's friends that you are close with.

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i agree i am not inviting everyone thats invited to the wedding. some of fhs friends from work gfs i dont even know

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Posted by Lsorrent

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Posted by grkbarbie

every1 who is invited to the wedding should get a shower invite.

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That's not necessarily true. I'm not inviting GF's of FH's friends that I wouldn't hang out with otherwise. Like one of his former co-workers is invited with his girlfriend to the wedding. But I'm not inviting the GF to my shower. I've met her once. There's another girl, who is another of FH's old co-workers who is invited to the wedding, but honestly I can't stand her, so she's not invited to my shower either.

I say family, BP, friends of yours, and any of FH's friends that you are close with.

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That was what I was planning on doing originally. Because truthfully, I can't stand most of FH's friends GF's!

Some people invite every woman who is invited to the wedding but I personally don't like this idea. That would mean inviting the wives of your FH's friends.. and if you aren't close to them in my opinion it doesn't make sense to invite them to the shower.

But everyone who is invited to the shower should be invited to the wedding. So your mom's coworkers can be invited to the shower if they are invited to the wedding. If you invite them to the shower they will be expecting a wedding invite.

i meant women in your life.. obviously if u cant stand fhs friends gfs u wont invite them lol!!

theres a group of 3 girls fh is coolwith and i hate one..so i didnt invite her to the shower and def not to the wedding. im a bishh