E-party gift from univited guest. I feel terrible.

E-party gift from univited guest. I feel terrible.

Yesterday we had our E party. We had to keep the guest list small, cause our friends hosted at their house and the yard is small and if it rained, space is limited inside. Ok, I have a 1st cousin, that I rarely see (just on holidays and sometimes I get invited to his kid's parties). I didn't invite this cousin, cause he's a rude person, makes racial comments, makes comments about people being overweight to their face, etc. Meanwhile, everyone says, he's just joking. However, my brother lives around the block from him and is at his house almost everyday. So yesterday, my brother brings a gift from this cousin to our e-party. It was something from our registry. It was obviously all the wife's doing, cause he's a man and wouldn't think of all that. I feel terrible now. Do you think I should call the wife and tell her that we had to keep it small? Or should I just send a thank you card and leave it at that.

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Just send a thank you. I wouldn't worry about it.

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Just send a thank you card.

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Thanks Ladies!!!

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Don't worry about not inviting the person! Just send a thank you for the gift. No biggie.

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A lot of people send engagement gifts, regardless of whether there is a party.

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i had that happen to me. the gift came from someone who we barely knew, but saw at family functions since this person is the sister in law of one of fh's aunt's. we didnt' even think to invite her. i just sent her a nice thank you card. oh wait i think i forget to send her one???? let me go do that now. thanks for the reminder.

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Just send a Thank you

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send a thank you. if he asks, then explain about keeping the guest list small and it was nothing personal. don't sweat it though.

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id just sent the card.....if you see them soon and it gets brought up you can explain at that time!

Re: E-party gift from univited guest. I feel terrible.

just send a thank you card and leave it at that

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Just send them a thank you card. Don't feel bad about not inviting them either.

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send a thank u card , and thats it!

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I had a similar situation from my bridal shower... I just sent a nice thank you note.

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A thank you card is fine!

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We had a few people who sent presents that weren't invited-we tried to keep it small with 75 people-we just sent thank yous.

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thanks everyone for the replies. now I feel better.