So today at work my supervisor asks the carat weight of my ring and also what it was appraised for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of course I didn't answer..I feel like thats soooo rude to ask that..how many of you feel the same way? just wondering..it annoys me so much..its like they think thats sole reason I'm getting married...grrrrrrrrrrrrr
that is pretty rude, I get asked this alot. All of my FH's co-workers always ask him how much he spent, and I don't get where people learned there manners. I mean I don't mind telling them the carat if they really want to know, but the price is truthfully nobodys business so I totally agree with you!
Posted by Bride 2 Be
So today at work my supervisor asks the carat weight of my ring and also what it was appraised for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of course I didn't answer..I feel like thats soooo rude to ask that..how many of you feel the same way? just wondering..it annoys me so much..its like they think thats sole reason I'm getting married...grrrrrrrrrrrrr
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
yes i totally agree! and i would only tell my close family members or friends..i just couln't believe it, and i lied and said it was on my certificate and i forgot and then he says ...find out and let me know! can you believe that!
Posted by jjk1007
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
yes i totally agree! and i would only tell my close family members or friends..i just couln't believe it, and i lied and said it was on my certificate and i forgot and then he says ...find out and let me know! can you believe that!
find out and let me know?!?!?![]()
![]()
![]()
![]()
![]()
Posted by Princess Cut Bride
I agree....it is very rude!!!! I have had lots of people ask me as well. The worst was my aunt when I had just gotten engaged...in the same sentence that she said congratulations she asked how many carats it was!![]()
I know I know..alot of people are JUST RUDE
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
Posted by TM2008
Posted by jjk1007
That is extremely rude that your supervisor asked you that. Maybe he/she is just one of those people who have no social skills and doesnt realize whats appropriate and what isnt!
I think thats only ok to ask if its a really close friend or family member, and even then you have to be careful. Its just one of those things ya know?
i totally agree with this!! very rude of her to ask... the only people i have told this to are my close friends!
Posted by JACK808
That is a rude question, but I always try to figure out a person's motive for asking the questions they ask. Is it possible that he is considering getting engaged and doesn't have any sort of clue as to what size diamond he thinks he should be looking for or something? I'm not saying this would excuse his rudeness, but maybe there is an explantation for it?![]()
yeah that is rude!
what's wrong with people? is it that hard to play nice??
