OK, some of you know Angelo and I waited until marriage. It's been a week since we're married, and it's still really painful. Does it take this long? How long does it normally take to ease up? Also, is it true that men need a few days to re-fuel? He's so cute, cause if I need to, he'll take care of me, but he needs a few days to recuperate. haha He's had past experience, and I wasn't so innocent with an ex, so I'm not totally innocent when it comes to this, but as far as all the way, I'm a newbie, and he waited until marriage for me. We've enjoyed other things in the meantime...but shoot, it's painful! Now that I'm completely embarrased, help ease my mind!!
eeelisas
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Oh my gosh, you girls crack me up!!! I love your responses and so appreciate you helping ease my mind!! As for doing it during my period...not for me. He actually wouldn't mind, but for me it's too grose. I'm just gonna give it time and see how it goes. Thanks so much! You made me laugh, smile, and feel a lot better!!!
dancerandchef
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Elisa, I am so glad that you posted this. We also waited until we were married and we are now in the process of TTC. This post will also help us out too. Thank you so much.
~dancer and chef~ charlotte and michael
craznan
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I had that same problem, with the pain and for some reason, I think I was allergic to the different types of lube, so we just used baby oil. It's soothing, sentual, and feels awesome. Try that if the pain persists, but that's just your body's way of reacting because something new is happened. Try like a week after your period and you should be fine. Good Luck and remember, we are all here for you!!!
Brian and Marie
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I honestly don't remember! It's been 11 years since I lost my virginity!! Eventually you'll both be wanting it EVERYDAY!!
