Engagement Party Favor Question...

Someone just told me not to have favors at an e-party....they are tacky.

Now, my MOH wanted to order save-the-date magnets.
Here is the question....
Do I get them to coordinate with the theme of the wedding or with the theme of the e-party?

I don't think favors at an e-oarty are tacky at all.

You can have the STDs be any theme you want. If you are giving them out at the E-party then maybe coordinated them to the e-party otherwise coordinate them with the wedding.