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Etiquette question....

Original post by beachbum05

Ok, so in the mail today my FH received an invitation to the rehearsal dinner for a wedding of one of his guy friends.

My name wasn't on the invitation....? Was not even addressed to both of us and he knows that we are engaged (we've been engaged longer than they have been!).

Is that wrong of them? I dont even remember if I was on the actual invitation.....!?



But maybe I wouldn't be invited to the Rehearsal Dinner? I don't get it because FH isn't in his wedding party....so why would they invite only ONE of us to it?!

The reply card says 'Name(s) __________
___will attend ___will not attend' which leads me to believe I would be allowed to come...? But I'm more annoyed that it wasn't even sent to both of us.
kellybean Posted:

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I think thats horrible !!!

kimnsteve Posted:

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listen touchy subject for me ...my FH brother isnt inviting me to their RD and my FH is the best man!I have known his brother for 8 years!

obviously they have no etiquette...so you never know ..i would have him ask them.
luna bride x Posted:

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wow thats WAY rude

ZCHM08 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

I think the best thing for you to do would be to show up at the wedding in a long white gown.



I AGREE!!!
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Posted by beachbum05

[ What am I going to do on Friday night while FH is at the RD!?





Bon! We'll meet for dinky-drinks!
Super2star Posted:

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Posted by kimnsteve

listen touchy subject for me ...my FH brother isnt inviting me to their RD and my FH is the best man!I have known his brother for 8 years!

obviously they have no etiquette...so you never know ..i would have him ask them.



WOW....I would be SO pissed if FH brother did that to me...what was his reasoning for that??
megzzie Posted:

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You should definitely be invited if FH is invited - but I don't get why he would be invited to the RD if he isn't in the BP
kimnsteve Posted:

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Posted by Super2star


Posted by kimnsteve

listen touchy subject for me ...my FH brother isnt inviting me to their RD and my FH is the best man!I have known his brother for 8 years!

obviously they have no etiquette...so you never know ..i would have him ask them.



WOW....I would be SO pissed if FH brother did that to me...what was his reasoning for that??



lol...got me ...I have been trying to figure it out forever ...she's just not going to come to mine ....better off

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