What is the proper thing to do? We rec'd a 'NO' rsvp but they put in a check! Do we cash now and thank or wait till after the wedding and then send a thank you?
TIA
DIESELLITSA
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I think you can send a thank you now and not wait til the wedding. jmo
AlmostKulak
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I agree, you could send the thank you now, I hate it when I write a check and someone doesn't cash it right away.
Nina
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Cash it. Send a thank you..
DNicholes
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Posted by Nina
Cash it. Send a thank you..
ditto.
That is what you are 'suppose' to do.
MrsMichel07
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Posted by Nina
Cash it. Send a thank you..
ditto.
That is what you are 'suppose' to do.
Toots123
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Let me ask - is the check dated for today or the date of your wedding? If it's dated for today, send a thank you, wait a week or so, and then cash the check! If it's dated for the date of your wedding - then I guess you have to wait.
Most people (I think) hope that you will cash it when they send it. I hate it when people wait weeks and weeks to cash my checks.
Let me ask - is the check dated for today or the date of your wedding? If it's dated for today, send a thank you, wait a week or so, and then cash the check! If it's dated for the date of your wedding - then I guess you have to wait.
Most people (I think) hope that you will cash it when they send it. I hate it when people wait weeks and weeks to cash my checks.
I def agree with this!
PaddysGirl15
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its dated for december- so I think we will cash it-- trust me- we need the money !!!! And will def send a thank you!!!!
Thanks for your help ladies!!!
lilqtpie2181
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im my experience.. the thank u card is sent after the occassion takes place but u can cash the check now
PegaLega
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Posted by AlmostKulak
I agree, you could send the thank you now, I hate it when I write a check and someone doesn't cash it right away.
I agree!!! Send a thank you now saying something to the affect of youwish they could be there but thank you for the gift
charisma
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Cash it sent a thank you,,,i agree annoying when you send a check and the person doesnt cash it...
shelby34
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I agree, you could send the thank you now, I hate it when I write a check and someone doesn't cash it right away.
I agree...enjoy it!
jerrys girl
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Send a thank you, then cash it.
Elise&Matt
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I would send a TY and then wait a week or 2 to cash it...this way they receive the TY first heheh I sent a check to my cousin for their wedding that I could not attend and never received a TY and that was 3 yrs ago! but they sure had no problem cashing it!!
butapecan3
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send a thank u so they know u got it
werock0709
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Cash it Callan, you never know if the money will be there in 50 some ought days. And besides that....send the Thank you now too, this way they know you recieved their gift.
