EVER FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO WEDDING PLAN

fabulousmady Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:56 AM

EVER FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO WEDDING PLAN

ALL the time? Anyone else out there feel like when they are done with one project, they HAVE to move on to another wedding-related project?
I feel like i'm on wedding OVERLOAD. I love planning and looking for ideas but when im not actually doing anything wedding related, i feel like i HAVE to find some wedding things to do

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:03 AM

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I felt like that in the past. Now, I am kind of on a planning break. It consumed way too much and I just want to enjoy my summer. But yea- people often ask what have I done, what are you doing, do you have this that and the other thing. It can be overwhelming at times!

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:08 AM

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thats how i felt but now that i am done with the major stuff, i am taking my time doing the the little things... one step at a time

NickandTara426 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:14 AM

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I felt like that in the beginning but now I feel like I am on slacker mode ! I haven't really done anything with vendors even though I really should be looking!

Kristina2009 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:17 AM

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I am totally a slacker. I really should start looking at BM dresses and flowers though. There is just so much going on that I find it hard to be consumed by the wedding (especially in teh summer). Sometimes I really just want to elope!

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:18 AM

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hahaha i felt like this at first. thats why i wanted allof my major things booked & done before the summer so i can relax!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:30 AM

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I actually feel the opposite...i wish i had more to plan! We are basically done...we had a long engagement so we were able to space things out. I really enjoy planning and havent ever felt stressed or overwhelmed with it. Thats why we made our wedding in 09. We wanted to enjoy being engaged and every part of the planning!

dazies1011 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 08:29 PM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

I actually feel the opposite...i wish i had more to plan! We are basically done...we had a long engagement so we were able to space things out. I really enjoy planning and havent ever felt stressed or overwhelmed with it. Thats why we made our wedding in 09. We wanted to enjoy being engaged and every part of the planning!

Same here

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 09:37 PM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

I actually feel the opposite...i wish i had more to plan! We are basically done...we had a long engagement so we were able to space things out. I really enjoy planning and havent ever felt stressed or overwhelmed with it. Thats why we made our wedding in 09. We wanted to enjoy being engaged and every part of the planning!

same here... we are having a 2 year engagement so we are doing things one at a time... i'm taking my time doing things so i have to say i love all the planning i'm doing !!!

Jayla127 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:08 PM

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I know the feeling!! It feels as if there are so many things going on all at once.

Lisa218 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:22 PM

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I feel this way too.....and i feel like i still didn't get anything done. I didn't realize how much planning really goes into it.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jul 07, 2008 10:32 PM

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i have the opposite prob.... i cant seem to get started... i just dont want to do it... if i hadnt already given the hall so much $$, id really reconsider the whole aspect...

chicky724 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:09 PM

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Apparently I only want to plan what I'm NOT supposed to be doing...

I was all about finding the perfect STD's but now that it's time to actually get them started I have no interest.

I kept looking online for the perfect dress and now that I should start trying them on I keep putting off making the appt.

I'm the biggest slacker EVER, I think I only have my 3 major vendors booked bc of FH!

iYexie Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:19 AM

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I feel like that too.......... always on my computer looking for something or just new ideas.
I'm always watching Bridezillas or Platinum Weddings!
At work that's all i think about cause everyone is always asking something about the wedding!

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:22 AM

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I don't know what I'm feeling lolz..I am constantly looking up wedding stuff and ideas...yet I only have my RH and Photographer booked. I started freakin out at work today when I realized the wedding is about a year away now..I have so much to do and I REALLY need a church! Someone give me a swift kick in the @ss please! Tell me to STOP looking for the perfect pair of shoes for the epics and to actually do something constructive!