So my wedding list is already insanely long...we both have huge families.
FH's parents included my FSIL's parents on their invite list and I do NOT want to invite them!!!
A little background: -FSIL is a witch...she just married FH's brother last July...prior to the wedding I e-mailed and called and asked if I could help her with anything... -I was not in her wedding (which I really did not want to be part of and was relieved) and she is not in mine -FSIL has yet to congratulate me on the wedding, has never asked me about planning, etc. -We see FSIL very rarely...
I really do not get along with her. She is just a nasty person and I have tried to reach out to her many times, and have finally given up.
She has done a lot of sketchy things (told ENTIRE family and sonme acquaintances they were having a baby before telling FH...I overheard her telling someone else!!! And then asks FH to be godfather...so strange!)
Also, I have only met FSIL's parents twice (and once was at her wedding!!)
I am sorry, but I get so crazy thinking about FSIL...it really bothers me that she will soon be my 'family' and she is so cold and nasty...I don't even want to invite her (although I know I have to)...
Do I have to invite her parents though? (we are already cutting some of our friends because the guest list is 280 right now and Riviera's max is 220!!!)
sophie78
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Re: Evil FSIL and Invites (Re-post from '05 Board)
I definitely think you have to invite them out of respect to your future in laws. Also it seems like you problem is with FSIL and not her parents.