Ex-boyfriends

cherryj24 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:29 AM

Ex-boyfriends

Hey- what is it about the exes finding out your getting married so deciding to call you up now and say 'I love you and I miss you', um then why did you f--k up so bad when you had me jerk??? Sorry just needed to ask, why????

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:47 AM

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I didn't have them say that, but I did have one Ex who was quite upset when he found out. They always want you back, when they can't have you! I guess we are just so irresistible.

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:49 AM

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Are those your dogs in that pic! How freakin cute!! I want a French Bulldog so bad. Lately my new dog obsession is a Boxer. SO I think I want both.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:49 AM

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well, I broke up with my ex, so when he found out, he was upset, and I understood. He didn't contact me, but I ran into him, and he knew already....

thumper9878 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:52 AM

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It is typical of ex's. It's a challenge for them!! It's also jealousy!!

cherryj24 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 07:58 AM

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Posted by AlliNMatt06

Are those your dogs in that pic! How freakin cute!! I want a French Bulldog so bad. Lately my new dog obsession is a Boxer. SO I think I want both.

Yes those are my babies. A frenchie (best dog ever!!!), an American Bulldog (hes awesome, and looks a little like a boxer), and a Cockerpoo (shes a sweetheart!)

The frenchie is so amazing, so cute, so tough, and so mushy!!! My little man, sleeps on my neck EVERY night FH gets jealous...too bad LOLOLOL

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 08:10 AM

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Posted by cherryj24

Posted by AlliNMatt06

Are those your dogs in that pic! How freakin cute!! I want a French Bulldog so bad. Lately my new dog obsession is a Boxer. SO I think I want both.

Yes those are my babies. A frenchie (best dog ever!!!), an American Bulldog (hes awesome, and looks a little like a boxer), and a Cockerpoo (shes a sweetheart!)

The frenchie is so amazing, so cute, so tough, and so mushy!!! My little man, sleeps on my neck EVERY night FH gets jealous...too bad LOLOLOL

I thought that was an American Bulldog, I love them to. I love the whole bulldog family. I think there faces are so cute. The Boxer does look very similar. My FH Aunt has a Mastiff, he is the cutest dog, but drools to much.

werock0709 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 08:29 AM

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My ex congratulated me, but he's trying to meet someone and get married before me. What a dumb***!! Now I know why I NEVER married him, and gave him his ring back. He's out of state now and I'm sooooooooo glad he is.

Tina120206 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 08:43 AM

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So true, when your single, noboby calls. As soon as your happy, they all start calling. I'm going through the same thing right now. Phone messages, text messages, emails...ugh......When it rains, it pours.

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 10:05 AM

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Same here. My ex will NEVER admit it but from what I hear he is upset about the upcoming wedding. Makes it very tough that he is in my circle of friends, and will be at the wedding. And another keeps emailing and texting me 'when are we getting together'. Not to mention that I see him every night in Penn Station and I walk way out of way to dodge him. I wonder if I keep ignoring him if he'll go away.

lrs2005 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 10:08 AM

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The week or so before my wedding an ex called and asked if I was still getting married. It was weird. I said yes, I am getting married. And he was like, so I have no chance, huh? I said no, you don't, sorry. He said something like, oh ok, I was just checking. What is up with that???? Such a strange boy.

FallBride05 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 10:12 AM

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This is part of the reason why when I moved from my apartment into our house, I didn't leave a forwarding ##. All the sudden after I got engaged, I had three phone calls from three different ex's all of whom now live out of state!

klingklang77 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 12:30 PM

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i have that too with one ex. he told me that he still had feelings for me and needed to know if i had the same for him. what an idiot. he even bought me an xmas gift and i went to go exchange (he wouldnt take it back), the store employees are like 'oh that's right, your husband came in and bought this'. i was all wierded out. it is even more difficult b/c we work 2gether, but like we dated for 2 months. get over it already.

ZuzusPetals Posted: Jan 19, 2006 01:37 PM

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You know the saying, 'You always want what you cant have.' Prob. applies to your situation.

EmberLynn Posted: Jan 19, 2006 01:42 PM

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A guy I dated, recently IM'ed me. Hes now with a girl in Maryland and was asking how I was doing. He pretty much confessed to me that he wished he hadn't messed things up, that we could have been something great and that he sees now what he lost. Well I told him flat out, that I did give him a chance, he hadn plenty of time to make things work, but he choose not too. Looking back on it, I was never really too interested in this guy. He seemed nice and I was open to getting closer, but now looking at it, I'm very glad it didn't happen. I love joe more than I could ever love him. Its weird how things work out.

SeptBride70 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 01:46 PM

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LOL i shouldn't be laughing but my ex was so depressed after we broke up (mind you he cheated on me by making out with some girl in a bar and came home with a hickey after three years!!! thats why i dumped him!!!) but i guess he didn't realize what he was losing b/c after me he stopped EATING, like a lot!! So much so that (he WAS a big guy) he lost like 100 pounds!!!! Now he's all scrawny, i think he looked better fat as scary as that sounds!!!! he grew his hair long, he's all depressed. I'm still friends with his brother and his brother's like he is so upset!! One time my ex asked his brother what he did last night and his brother said I went out with Danielle and Vinny (my FH) and my ex was like do me a favor? never mention either of them to me again! LOL like i cheated on him!! also, his brother told me that whenever he gets anything in the mail (STD card, E-party invite, even b-day cards that i send to him-not my ex) he gets all mad and will like throw them and not want to see them and won't let him put stuff on the fridge hahaha!!! it also bothers him b/c he happens to know my FH through people--they went to elem school and middle school together before my FH moved!! LOL small world!
Emotional revenge is so sweet!!! I hate to say it but i dont care--i'm glad he's suffering when it has been over a year already b/c of what he did to me... b/c after he cheated on me, until i felt better, i didn't eat for weeks and i kept throwing up too so i think this is a little bit of KARMA!!!
*I apologize I'm so wicked*

SeptBride70 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 01:48 PM

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Posted by klingklang77

i have that too with one ex. he told me that he still had feelings for me and needed to know if i had the same for him. what an idiot. he even bought me an xmas gift and i went to go exchange (he wouldnt take it back), the store employees are like 'oh that's right, your husband came in and bought this'. i was all wierded out. it is even more difficult b/c we work 2gether, but like we dated for 2 months. get over it already.

AHHH could you imagine if he TOLD the store clerks that you were his wife!!! LOL i really hope not but that would be FREAKY if he did, wishful thinking lol

klingklang77 Posted: Jan 19, 2006 02:44 PM

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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella

Posted by klingklang77

i have that too with one ex. he told me that he still had feelings for me and needed to know if i had the same for him. what an idiot. he even bought me an xmas gift and i went to go exchange (he wouldnt take it back), the store employees are like 'oh that's right, your husband came in and bought this'. i was all wierded out. it is even more difficult b/c we work 2gether, but like we dated for 2 months. get over it already.

AHHH could you imagine if he TOLD the store clerks that you were his wife!!! LOL i really hope not but that would be FREAKY if he did, wishful thinking lol

well it was a yarn store, so i guess they assume that any guy that comes in is someone's husband or something. i only hope that is the reason...