Isnt it funny...or pathetic maybe....how know that your engaged exs want you back like crazy haha...my ex has been calling for a while and he cant stand the fact that im engaged and he will NEVER have me again..he was still living this illustion we were getting together again even though i havent had feelings for him since we broke up..anyone else have this problem?
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No because my FI is pretty much my only SERIOUS relationship. I hope your ex moves on eventually. Enjoy the fact that he still wants you tho lol
DNicholes
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There's a secret part of me that would love my ex to contact me JUST so I could show him how well my life has turned out without him in it!! Is that horrible of me? he
Tria1110
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Honestly, I find this kind of stuff sooooo dangerous.
DNicholes
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Posted by Tria1110
Honestly, I find this kind of stuff sooooo dangerous.
Why would it be dangerous? I would never ever ever ever think twice about my relationship w/ my FI, if anything I want to show him off.
I don't see how it's dangerous....if it's dangerous for people then I think they'd have to look at there current relationship and evaluate it. JMO.
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Posted by DNicholes
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Honestly, I find this kind of stuff sooooo dangerous.
Why would it be dangerous? I would never ever ever ever think twice about my relationship w/ my FI, if anything I want to show him off.
I don't see how it's dangerous....if it's dangerous for people then I think they'd have to look at there current relationship and evaluate it. JMO.
This is just my opinion.... but why would you care if an ex knew how great your life turned out? It sounds like there could be some unresolved issue or feeling with/for ex. And you are right - that would require evaluating the current & past relationship.
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Posted by Tria1110
Posted by DNicholes
Posted by Tria1110
Honestly, I find this kind of stuff sooooo dangerous.
Why would it be dangerous? I would never ever ever ever think twice about my relationship w/ my FI, if anything I want to show him off.
I don't see how it's dangerous....if it's dangerous for people then I think they'd have to look at there current relationship and evaluate it. JMO.
This is just my opinion.... but why would you care if an ex knew how great your life turned out? It sounds like there could be some unresolved issue or feeling with/for ex. And you are right - that would require evaluating the current & past relationship.
Nope actually, I don't have any unresolved issues w/ this person nor do I need to re-evaluate my relationship but thank you for your opinion & concern.
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chica, you have to be like, 'Yeah...you lost this SUCKER' and prance around like the successful, sexy bride to be you are!!
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I dated this guy in high school, if you could call it dating...anyways, he was a jerk so I had been ignoring his phone calls for the past like 3 years...anywho, he saw me online and looked at my pictures and saw that I was engaged and I was actually kinda pissed...I didn't want him to have the pleasure of knowing what I was up to and now he does.
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My best friend lives in my ex's basement apartment. I get the best of both worlds since I dont have to talk to him, yet my friend makes sure to tell him everything that makes him jealous like engagement, pregnant, she said he gets mad b/c he still thinks one day we will get back together
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wow...I dont even think about this stuff! I agree with this being dangerous. There is not one ounce of me even caring of what my ex may think...
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i dont have any real ex's since i started dating FH when i was 15 BUT there have been a few guys along the way that have said 'oh you poor pathetic girl, he is NEVER going to marry you if he hasn't by now'
and guess what STUPID HEADS you were WRONG!!!
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I don't think it dangerous to hope an ex knows what he missed out on... I think that's human nature. Just because you want your ex to be miserable doesn't mean there are unresolved issues there. IMHO. It similar to wanting someone you don't like/hate (perhaps an old friend who you had a falling out with) know that you're better than ever and happier than you ever were with that person in your life.
**funny story... my FH and my ex kind of grew up together (yes, it got hairy for a while because we all went to college together). My FMIL ran into my ex's father in the store a few months back and he asked how FH was and if we were still together. My FMIL said that he was fine and that we're still together... she then goes on to say that my ex really messed up that one (referring to our relationship). Thank god that woman thinks AFTER she speaks!
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IMHO, we should be wishing happiness on our exes and former friends, not wishing for them to be miserable! we're all engaged and happy.... they should be as blessed!
