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I considered this, but in the end I bought a yellow gold band and when we travel I wear that
I'm not getting a fake set, but I am going to get a plain wedding band to match FH's (mine is diamond) so that if I'm concerned about wearing my ring I can still wear my wedding band.
Posted by zoe282
Posted by FinallyEngaged
I plan on wearing both my ering and wedding band on my HM..... i am not going to live my life in fear, plus that is what insurance is for.... i have a better chance of losing my e-ring doing normal everyday stuff....
I totally agree with this and what everyone else said who is not getting a fake one. Why not get a fake bag, and fake sunglasses and everything else. yes it's scary and you can lose it but I think putting a fake ring on is not good. I wouldn't wear it at all before I wore a fake one, or would get just a plain band to wear. That's why they make insurance. Your stone could fall out while shopping or in a subway...should you wear a fake one all the time?
I didnt get a fake wedding ring set.,
Posted by Mizzdimple
I didnt get a fake wedding ring set.,
Posted by zoe282
Posted by FinallyEngaged
I plan on wearing both my ering and wedding band on my HM..... i am not going to live my life in fear, plus that is what insurance is for.... i have a better chance of losing my e-ring doing normal everyday stuff....
I totally agree with this and what everyone else said who is not getting a fake one. Why not get a fake bag, and fake sunglasses and everything else. yes it's scary and you can lose it but I think putting a fake ring on is not good. I wouldn't wear it at all before I wore a fake one, or would get just a plain band to wear. That's why they make insurance. Your stone could fall out while shopping or in a subway...should you wear a fake one all the time?
Posted by Future Mulligan
Posted by zoe282
Posted by FinallyEngaged
I plan on wearing both my ering and wedding band on my HM..... i am not going to live my life in fear, plus that is what insurance is for.... i have a better chance of losing my e-ring doing normal everyday stuff....
I totally agree with this and what everyone else said who is not getting a fake one. Why not get a fake bag, and fake sunglasses and everything else. yes it's scary and you can lose it but I think putting a fake ring on is not good. I wouldn't wear it at all before I wore a fake one, or would get just a plain band to wear. That's why they make insurance. Your stone could fall out while shopping or in a subway...should you wear a fake one all the time?
Everyone has to do what makes them comfortable. but your rings are like everything else. Do you not drive a car cause someone might hit it? You have car insurance...do you not go out in public because you might get sick? No you have health insurance. Do you run your stove, dryer, candles or anything that could cause a fire in your house? yes....I personally do wear my ring to the beach. IMO i think a fake set is tacky. I totally undrestand being uncomfortable wearing a ring but then get a plain band. Showboating a big CZ isn't the way to go IMO....
see i would never wear my ering or wedding band to the beach - in the ocean or in a pool because ive lost jewelry like that before - so if i wouldnt do it here - why would i do that in another country? so what i have insurance - that doesnt mean im going to put my jewelry that has sentimental value to me at risk....just because i have insurance doesnt mean im going to be irresponsible with my jewelry - i dont think getting a fake set is a bad idea - if you lose that there really is no loss - i think people like fake sets because its a symbol that you are married for everyone to see - at least thats how i feel...
Posted by Espo22
if people want to get a fake set then let them. They dont want to wear it to the beach but want to show they're married so if theyre happy who cares if its something you wouldn't do.
Msflesch-to answer your question that you just asked Lisa. I got engaged while on a cruise, so i had NO choice but to have the ring on me. I didnt want to leave it in a safe at all, i didnt trust to do that. So yes i wore it to the beach and everywhere. When we went snorkeling, we were with alot of his family, his aunt didnt go in the water so i had a bookbag and also had this mini purse inside that zips and put my ring in that and then put the mini purse in the bookbag and gave to his aunt to hold. I knew she can be trusted to watch it carefully and i told her the ring was in there so to really watch it. That is the only time i took it off. In turks and caicos i had it on while i was on the beach. I only went in the beginning part of the water and it was so low, i didnt go swimming since i cant swim lol. AND i just did what i do even now on a daily basis, i put my thumb over the center stone to always feel it and make sure its fine. I take the train everyday and same risk is involved.
but ladies, no need to let such a subject cause controversey lol. Its not a big deal at all. Let others do what makes them happy. Luckily for my HM i dont have to worry about this so not concerned but for others its a concern. Whoever wants to do it then do it and who doesnt then simply dont do it. Who cares what the other is doing
Posted by Espo22
if people want to get a fake set then let them. They dont want to wear it to the beach but want to show they're married so if theyre happy who cares if its something you wouldn't do.
Msflesch-to answer your question that you just asked Lisa. I got engaged while on a cruise, so i had NO choice but to have the ring on me. I didnt want to leave it in a safe at all, i didnt trust to do that. So yes i wore it to the beach and everywhere. When we went snorkeling, we were with alot of his family, his aunt didnt go in the water so i had a bookbag and also had this mini purse inside that zips and put my ring in that and then put the mini purse in the bookbag and gave to his aunt to hold. I knew she can be trusted to watch it carefully and i told her the ring was in there so to really watch it. That is the only time i took it off. In turks and caicos i had it on while i was on the beach. I only went in the beginning part of the water and it was so low, i didnt go swimming since i cant swim lol. AND i just did what i do even now on a daily basis, i put my thumb over the center stone to always feel it and make sure its fine. I take the train everyday and same risk is involved.
Posted by MrsDtoBe
I've been on a roll this week and just thought I'd share:
I ordered my favors, invitations AND my fake wedding ring set this week!!!!
Are you getting a fake set too? If you are, check out Inspiredsilver.com right now..they are having a sale!
I am def. going to wear my e-ring and w-ring I can't imagine not wearing them. The only thing I was concerned about was the water and all but I am going to wear a hair tie on my ring finger, like I do now when I go to the gym, it doesn't move around at all.
Posted by zoe282
I don't know what happend there...here was what I said...
Everyone has to do what makes them comfortable. but your rings are like everything else. Do you not drive a car cause someone might hit it? You have car insurance...do you not go out in public because you might get sick? No you have health insurance. Do you run your stove, dryer, candles or anything that could cause a fire in your house? yes....I personally do wear my ring to the beach. IMO i think a fake set is tacky. I totally undrestand being uncomfortable wearing a ring but then get a plain band. Showboating a big CZ isn't the way to go IMO....
Posted by Espo22
if people want to get a fake set then let them. They dont want to wear it to the beach but want to show they're married so if theyre happy who cares if its something you wouldn't do.
Msflesch-to answer your question that you just asked Lisa. I got engaged while on a cruise, so i had NO choice but to have the ring on me. I didnt want to leave it in a safe at all, i didnt trust to do that. So yes i wore it to the beach and everywhere. When we went snorkeling, we were with alot of his family, his aunt didnt go in the water so i had a bookbag and also had this mini purse inside that zips and put my ring in that and then put the mini purse in the bookbag and gave to his aunt to hold. I knew she can be trusted to watch it carefully and i told her the ring was in there so to really watch it. That is the only time i took it off. In turks and caicos i had it on while i was on the beach. I only went in the beginning part of the water and it was so low, i didnt go swimming since i cant swim lol. AND i just did what i do even now on a daily basis, i put my thumb over the center stone to always feel it and make sure its fine. I take the train everyday and same risk is involved.
but ladies, no need to let such a subject cause controversey lol. Its not a big deal at all. Let others do what makes them happy. Luckily for my HM i dont have to worry about this so not concerned but for others its a concern. Whoever wants to do it then do it and who doesnt then simply dont do it. Who cares what the other is doing
Posted by zoe282
Posted by Espo22
if people want to get a fake set then let them. They dont want to wear it to the beach but want to show they're married so if theyre happy who cares if its something you wouldn't do.
Msflesch-to answer your question that you just asked Lisa. I got engaged while on a cruise, so i had NO choice but to have the ring on me. I didnt want to leave it in a safe at all, i didnt trust to do that. So yes i wore it to the beach and everywhere. When we went snorkeling, we were with alot of his family, his aunt didnt go in the water so i had a bookbag and also had this mini purse inside that zips and put my ring in that and then put the mini purse in the bookbag and gave to his aunt to hold. I knew she can be trusted to watch it carefully and i told her the ring was in there so to really watch it. That is the only time i took it off. In turks and caicos i had it on while i was on the beach. I only went in the beginning part of the water and it was so low, i didnt go swimming since i cant swim lol. AND i just did what i do even now on a daily basis, i put my thumb over the center stone to always feel it and make sure its fine. I take the train everyday and same risk is involved.
but ladies, no need to let such a subject cause controversey lol. Its not a big deal at all. Let others do what makes them happy. Luckily for my HM i dont have to worry about this so not concerned but for others its a concern. Whoever wants to do it then do it and who doesnt then simply dont do it. Who cares what the other is doing
People can do what they want which is why i put IMO....you can say your married with a plain band. You don't need a diamond to show you are married which is where my opinion lies. Of course people can do what they want. I just wouldn't....
Posted by msflesch
Posted by Espo22
if people want to get a fake set then let them. They dont want to wear it to the beach but want to show they're married so if theyre happy who cares if its something you wouldn't do.
Msflesch-to answer your question that you just asked Lisa. I got engaged while on a cruise, so i had NO choice but to have the ring on me. I didnt want to leave it in a safe at all, i didnt trust to do that. So yes i wore it to the beach and everywhere. When we went snorkeling, we were with alot of his family, his aunt didnt go in the water so i had a bookbag and also had this mini purse inside that zips and put my ring in that and then put the mini purse in the bookbag and gave to his aunt to hold. I knew she can be trusted to watch it carefully and i told her the ring was in there so to really watch it. That is the only time i took it off. In turks and caicos i had it on while i was on the beach. I only went in the beginning part of the water and it was so low, i didnt go swimming since i cant swim lol. AND i just did what i do even now on a daily basis, i put my thumb over the center stone to always feel it and make sure its fine. I take the train everyday and same risk is involved.
but ladies, no need to let such a subject cause controversey lol. Its not a big deal at all. Let others do what makes them happy. Luckily for my HM i dont have to worry about this so not concerned but for others its a concern. Whoever wants to do it then do it and who doesnt then simply dont do it. Who cares what the other is doing
Well said. I am happy this thread came up - I didn't even think of us. I am getting a diamond eternity band and also a plain white gold band so if i am nervouos i can just wear the plain band.
Although, I would like the bling for the casinos..![]()
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