Feeling soo behind..but dont want to do it lol

Ughh I feel soo behind in planning.

I mean I have major vendors books:
Hall
Church
Photo/Video
DJ
Limos
Flowers
Honeymoon
Makeup
Hair (pending)
Hotel

But I look at the 09 boards and see how many girls have more than I do...its crazy. Some of them have already ordered their dresses. They still have either a little less than 2 years or more. I feel soo behind I only went dress shopping once and my wedding is at the one year mark in about 26 days!!!

ughh anyone else feel crazied...but lazy and procratinating with the planning lol

hahahah theres a thread about the same thing on here, its still on the first page...ALOT of us are feeling like this

what else is there than what you did?? this igettingout of hand ! haha
haha you have moredone than i do - dont stress!

I still have to book flowers and limos!

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Posted by jteach711

I think you are on a good timeline right now, honestly I think some of those 09 girls are getting way ahead of themselves. I would look to order your dress w/in the next 2 months b/c most of them take like 8 months to come in

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agreed! i don't think i would want to order my dress 2 years ahead! thats such a huge period of time..styles can change..you too can change physically and mentally (meaning what styles you like)!

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Posted by megzzie

I still have to book flowers and limos!

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same

plus hair/makeup and god knows what else !

oh and honeymoon

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Posted by jteach711

I think you are on a good timeline right now, honestly I think some of those 09 girls are getting way ahead of themselves. I would look to order your dress w/in the next 2 months b/c most of them take like 8 months to come in

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i agree, bc even if it comes in early what are you going to do with it ya know.

other than your dress (which u stll have time to look around and take your time w/) you are good for awhile.

...are you doing any DIYs?

I booked most of my big vendors, but I have been playing around on the computer with invitations, programs, menus and drink menus

The 09 girls are getting ahead of themselves imo. Not necessarily bad, but if u plan it all so in advance- u have nothing to plan later.

You have time- over a year- dont worry

edit b/c I didnt make sense- haha

haha yeah i guess we all have different ideas of where we should be in our planning.

i guess i am just getting frustrated with myself. cause i am like oh well i still have plenty of time. but i know i will procrastinate and like jess you said i should order my dress within the next to months. i am nervous i wont find one haha

but i think thats what gets to me...i see soo many 09ers getting all this crap done soo early and i get scared. but in my opinion i wouldnt want to order a dress 2 yrs in advance i am such an indecisive person i know i would change my mind. plus where the he11 do you keep it when it comes in in 9 months haha

well i guess we are all feeling a litlte crazy at times....lol thanks for the reassurance

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Posted by cbcf

haha yeah i guess we all have different ideas of where we should be in our planning.

i guess i am just getting frustrated with myself. cause i am like oh well i still have plenty of time. but i know i will procrastinate and like jess you said i should order my dress within the next to months. i am nervous i wont find one haha

but i think thats what gets to me...i see soo many 09ers getting all this crap done soo early and i get scared. but in my opinion i wouldnt want to order a dress 2 yrs in advance i am such an indecisive person i know i would change my mind. plus where the he11 do you keep it when it comes in in 9 months haha

well i guess we are all feeling a litlte crazy at times....lol thanks for the reassurance

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catie trust me YOU WILL FIND A DRESS!!! and you will definately know when you do! just have an open mind..try on everything..even things you don't necessarily like on the rack!! you might fall in love with one! My dress i didn't want to try on..because i had something similiar i was trying on and i wasn't sure about the beadwork.but when I tried it on ..i was in shock of how much i loved it!

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

ohh i defiantly am VERY behind, lets just say that i'm 4 months away and no florist yet ... oh yes i'm quite the procrastinator lol

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no florist yet here either!

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Posted by krissyB2b

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

ohh i defiantly am VERY behind, lets just say that i'm 4 months away and no florist yet ... oh yes i'm quite the procrastinator lol

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no florist yet here either!

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at least I don't feel alone! .. at least I know what I want, and who I want, we just need to meet and sign a contract basically but FH and I never have time it suckss!

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

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Posted by krissyB2b

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Posted by Future_Mr_andMrs_Palomino

ohh i defiantly am VERY behind, lets just say that i'm 4 months away and no florist yet ... oh yes i'm quite the procrastinator lol

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no florist yet here either!

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at least I don't feel alone! .. at least I know what I want, and who I want, we just need to meet and sign a contract basically but FH and I never have time it suckss!

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ugh i hear ya!

don't worry, i think you are doing really good on timing (considering i have accomplished less and am a couple weeks before )

'just keep keeping on' -Joe Dirt