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Mine just thinks everything is ridiculous. Fortunately he's not paying!
Posted by mpasquar81
Mine just thinks everything is ridiculous. Fortunately he's not paying!
Posted by NikkiR515
I try to involve him in as little as possible for this exact reason!!!!!!![]()
Luckily for me.... He isn't so savvy when it comes to money... I am the one who is graduating with a Bachelors in Accounting in June so he leaves the money matters to me! I do enough stressing out about money for the both of us!!!![]()
His head would explode if I told him how much was being spent...he's happily in the dark!
Posted by michesq
Posted by NikkiR515
I try to involve him in as little as possible for this exact reason!!!!!!![]()
Luckily for me.... He isn't so savvy when it comes to money... I am the one who is graduating with a Bachelors in Accounting in June so he leaves the money matters to me! I do enough stressing out about money for the both of us!!!![]()
mine is an accountant and has always and I mean always watched his money![]()
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Posted by lizzzie35
FH thinks any amount of money we spend is too much. I say photog/video is going to cost us around 5k and he's like, how about we don't get one because they cost too much.I want a DOC and he says no, they cost too much. Everything costs too much!!
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Posted by michesq
Posted by lizzzie35
FH thinks any amount of money we spend is too much. I say photog/video is going to cost us around 5k and he's like, how about we don't get one because they cost too much.I want a DOC and he says no, they cost too much. Everything costs too much!!
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ohhhh I did get him to cave on the DOC and I can have one if I want![]()
Posted by NikkiR515
Posted by michesq
Posted by lizzzie35
FH thinks any amount of money we spend is too much. I say photog/video is going to cost us around 5k and he's like, how about we don't get one because they cost too much.I want a DOC and he says no, they cost too much. Everything costs too much!!
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ohhhh I did get him to cave on the DOC and I can have one if I want![]()
Okay, I have a stupid question.... What is a DOC?? I am still learning the lingo!
Posted by mpasquar81
Posted by NikkiR515
Posted by michesq
Posted by lizzzie35
FH thinks any amount of money we spend is too much. I say photog/video is going to cost us around 5k and he's like, how about we don't get one because they cost too much.I want a DOC and he says no, they cost too much. Everything costs too much!!
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ohhhh I did get him to cave on the DOC and I can have one if I want![]()
Okay, I have a stupid question.... What is a DOC?? I am still learning the lingo!
DOC=Day of Coordinator
No, he just tells me to keep it sensible and not go crazy.
yeah he worries
he has no idea and doesnt understand anything!!
I WISH my FH was like that.
Mine is not paying yet because he just paid off my ring, but he will be contributing starting next paycheck . . . so now he's interested. But, I've already booked everything, so the budget is sealed. We didn't go that far over, and we're spending far less than many, about the same as most . . . . The best thing you can do is show him what others are spending, actual prices, show him that you ARE comparison shopping and bargaining with vendors, and make sure that things he wants don't get booted from budget or cut . . . so long as you're taking effective control and not going hogwild, and respecting what he wants in the wedding too, he has no real reason to get too bent out of shape . . . it is what it is, weddings don't come cheap!!!
