FH can be cute sometimes
So I´ve been a little stressed with how little time I have left (58 Days 7 Hours 31 Minutes 56 Seconds as of right now!!!!) and how much I still have to do. I try not to stress with FH because he has a lot on his plate work wise plus trying to get everything in order for his mom to be able to apply for a Visa and go to NY for the wedding.
Last night all of a sudden he tells me 'In exactly Two months we´ll be at a very special party' I smiled and then was like I know LIW says 58 days 21 hours theres so much to do. Then when he was in bed watching TV I was talking to him about favor ideas and he was closing his eyes I told him that we could just do it tomorrow but he said to continue. I asked him that a few times as he closed his eyes. The third or fourth he didn´t respond b.c he had fallen asleep. At first I was like he should´ve just said he was tired he made me explain that whole thing for nothing!
Then I realize that my stress had me looking at it wrong. It was great that he realized it was two months to the day (I hadn´t given it any thought) and wonderful that despite everything his hectic day he was willing to try to listen and get some stuff done even though he was exhausted!! Once I realized that I smiled and calmed down a bit. It made me thing of the reason for the wedding again. Not just all the things that have to be done!!!! I think sometimes we lose sight of that. Just thought I´d share in case anyone else had their thinking off as well.
(of course I´m already begining to stress again but thats another story!!
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Last night all of a sudden he tells me 'In exactly Two months we´ll be at a very special party' I smiled and then was like I know LIW says 58 days 21 hours theres so much to do. Then when he was in bed watching TV I was talking to him about favor ideas and he was closing his eyes I told him that we could just do it tomorrow but he said to continue. I asked him that a few times as he closed his eyes. The third or fourth he didn´t respond b.c he had fallen asleep. At first I was like he should´ve just said he was tired he made me explain that whole thing for nothing!
Then I realize that my stress had me looking at it wrong. It was great that he realized it was two months to the day (I hadn´t given it any thought) and wonderful that despite everything his hectic day he was willing to try to listen and get some stuff done even though he was exhausted!! Once I realized that I smiled and calmed down a bit. It made me thing of the reason for the wedding again. Not just all the things that have to be done!!!! I think sometimes we lose sight of that. Just thought I´d share in case anyone else had their thinking off as well.
(of course I´m already begining to stress again but thats another story!!