he has gone to everything with me except like 1 visit...
fh is really into it...wants to be a part of it which im glad..it is both of our days...
Nina_m74
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My FH really hasn't been that involved in the planning. We decided on the RH, guest list and budget together - but everything else he says 'whatever you want'
There have been a few times when I told him I would really like his opinion and that can be frustrating to get out of him because it honestly does not matter to him. He just wants to marry me, he isn't really interested in the wedding part and would be much happier just going to vegas or a JP, but he is doing the wedding because he knows I want our families there.
My family and my FILs have helped out a lot and FH does help out when he knows that it is important to me, but for the most part I'm taking care of the planning.
maybride75
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i know what you mean i always get the same answer from him. that sounds good hun whatever you want. i asked hun what songs would you like to play at the wedding reception and all i get is i dont know whatever you want i guess. ughhh i feel your pain girl
vika111
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I had the same problem, so I began to give him deadlines. He did 1 of the 3 things assigned to him. Eventhough he has more free time than I do, he claims that I can do it better, so why should he?
