Okay... I love my FH sooo much, but when it comes to planning the wedding he's obviously a little slacking tin that department... which is fine Until his BM said they're planning the trip to Vegas for his Bachelor Party. I've never seen FH so proactive. Nothing about the wedding, but the past 4 nights he's been on the computer and on the phone researching and working on the Bachelor Party.
Okay... just had to get that out b/c also the last time we did 'You Know What' was b4 this whole Vegas thing. Hello! Maybe I should wear a casino cocktail waitress outfit to get his attention.
MF9282
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Awwww !! Don't worry mine has been completely useless in the whole planning process!! I am sure once his bachelor part is in the works he will react the same way!!!
sugarkube4
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Mine is so disinterested in the planning process, he is looking forward to the parties, including his bachelor party and the reception and the HM.. so don't feel bad..
LICARRIE
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Trust me I know the feeling. Mine can't be bothered with anything. The answer is always well do you like them? If you like it its fine. Just once I would like a real opinion. And his Bachelor party wow he can't wait.
TnOiOnL
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i'd be p!ssed off too...
thats buuuuullshiot!!!
men suck!
Ericab1980
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grr I know how u feel ..mine is the same..but if he approached his bachelor party with such voracity I'd deck him
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mine's the same way. He just shows up to the appointments I make then doesn't even give his opinion. But theyre going to florida for his BP and he's all excited. it's a guy thing.
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Ask him to start helping with the wedding or you'll be going to Vegas with them.
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Posted by MrsBartonToBe
i'd be p!ssed off too...
thats buuuuullshiot!!!
men suck!
ditto
RGV07
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yup not sure where my FH will be doing for his
AMANDA2378
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not that its a good thing, but I feel better knowing that other FH are not into the whole wedding planning!!!
mine doesnt have a clue as to what ive done in the planning so far, but when it comes to picking our bridal party & song he has everything to say!!!
Im not saying that he shouldnt have a say, of course he has to help decide on these things, but he has nothing to say about all of it, but he'll fight me tooth & nail on these 2 little things that shouldnt be a whole big to do????
Guys really dont have a clue at all!!!!!
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You're not alone...my FH is not interested in the planning process
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Posted by snydl40
Ask him to start helping with the wedding or you'll be going to Vegas with them.
LOL! Good one... don't think it'll go over well, but he's gonna owe me.
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What a typical guy! Sorry to hear that, but my Fh barely does anything wedding related either and when I b*tch to him he says that its my day anything I want goes...which is nice in a way...your Fh just knows that ultimately it is going to be what you want...so he is planing something for him ya know? I dunno if I make sense.
and about the other thing...girl if you initiated you know he would not turn you down!
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My says 'whatever you want' I mean he has some input but none that I want
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That is such typical guy behavior! My FH has only worked on the HM and a few little computer issues I had when working on my guest list. I practically had to beg him to get addresses from his own friends! But, he plans a spring training trip to Fla each year and works very hard planning that! Try the cocktil dress thing....it will probably work! hehe
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Posted by shelby34
That is such typical guy behavior! My FH has only worked on the HM and a few little computer issues I had when working on my guest list. I practically had to beg him to get addresses from his own friends! But, he plans a spring training trip to Fla each year and works very hard planning that! Try the cocktil dress thing....it will probably work! hehe
LOL... I'll have to try the cocktail dress. The other day I kept telling him... 'I'm getting in the shower now... wanna join' and I got.. 'One minute, just gotta look something up on the computer' then he got more calls. Doh
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I would definitely “vent” to him about it, in a loving and concerned way. It’s not right that he only show enthusiasm and be proactive about something that just concerns him and not something that concerns the BOTH of you.
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Posted by LICARRIE
Trust me I know the feeling. Mine can't be bothered with anything. The answer is always well do you like them? If you like it its fine. Just once I would like a real opinion. And his Bachelor party wow he can't wait.
this is exactly what mine does-he makes me nutzzzzzz
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leave it to a man!! Don't take it personally...did you explain to him that you would like him to help plan?
