FH - not involved

FallBride2010 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 12:04 PM

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FH cared about the RH, band and photographer and was very involved in the decision. He didnt care at all about flowers...did that on my own. Not sure he will care about all the little details...but to keep me quiet he pretends he does. LOL

little j Posted: Mar 13, 2009 12:58 PM

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FH wants to be involved and go to appts w me....but he has like NO TIME. he has been working long hours and usually has errands on teh wknds. it stinks!

i know he will feel bad if i go without him, so im trying to make this work....but right now i have more time than him,...its just frustrating!

Jna2010 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:13 PM

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most fh's usually care about the major stuff, if they care at all.... it does get a little frustrating but just try telling him thats its his wedding to and you want him to love it as much as you and so you really want his opinions on somethings

Future Mrs H Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:14 PM

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My FH is pretty involved. The only things he is not caring about is flowers and the DJ (If it was up to him he would have the Met game on in the background). I ask his input on everything and he will say how he feels.

MikesBride2B Posted: Mar 13, 2009 02:03 PM

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I wish I had this problem...FH has an opinion on every little thing and so far none of our opinions match! Like some other girls I wish he didn't care, then I would get my way.

He always 'Yes Dears' me on other stuff....why can't he do it for the wedding??

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 02:35 PM

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FH doesn't care about the details as long as they are within reason and won't cost us an arm and a leg.

The only thing that FH really want to participate in was the choosing of our RH. He didn't go with me to all the halls, he only went to those I picked as my final list, which was about 4 and he only went to 2 of them.

It is was up to him we would have gotten married at the JOP, but he knew I wanted the church, RH, the dress, etc. So in reality, all the details are really up to me, he doesn't care either way.

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 13, 2009 02:41 PM

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i wish he was more picky.. but im a control freak..so ultimately what i say goes.. (when it comes to the wedding loll)

iceprincess Posted: Mar 13, 2009 02:52 PM

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I agree my fh def had his opions as far as the hall....but when it comes to the save the dates and invites and certain things like that he really isnt interested i show him some pictures and he came with me to the wedding cooridnators place to sit with her but some things he just really isnt into putting info in on. Sometimes your better off lol .

JenBill61210 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 03:35 PM

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FH is sorta like that... he just cares about how much it costs!

Yankees2323 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 04:51 PM

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my Fh was involved in choosing the Rh with me... i did all the research and found a top 5 and took him to them and we narrowed it down.. other than that he just came with me for the apointments to the vendors.. he just recently started getting involved with the small stuff like the std,'s the cake decor and everything else... maybe as it gets closer he will get more involved..

beebs341 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 05:03 PM

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Posted by pasta3825

I like that he doesn't care... that means I can get to pick everything out!

ITA - and whenever we get in an arguement, I say 'You know what, I don't want to hear it b/c I'm planning this whole wedding. ' And thats it, I won!

TheLadyJ Posted: Mar 13, 2009 05:25 PM

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Fh is very involved, but we have different tastes. I want everything to be fun - candy bar, photo booth, chocolate fountain, etc, and he wants everything to be classy - ice sculptures, limos, favors.

So, we are having a hard time agreeing on what comes next.....