FH Vent

I wake up this morning and FH is gone it's around 1pm and still haven't heard from him so I thought I'd call at which point he tells me 'Oh I'm working this weekend' and claims to have told me this b4

So I asked him 'when are we going to get all the things we need to do done'

his response

'what else do we have to get done?'

what does he think I've been doing up til 1 and 2 o'clock in the morning?

Could be NOT tell me this ahead of time? Does he NOT realize that our wedding is NEXT SUNDAY???

Sorry...had to get that out

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Posted by moonlitee

I wake up this morning and FH is gone it's around 1pm and still haven't heard from him so I thought I'd call at which point he tells me 'Oh I'm working this weekend' and claims to have told me this b4

So I asked him 'when are we going to get all the things we need to do done'

his response

'what else do we have to get done?'

what does he think I've been doing up til 1 and 2 o'clock in the morning?

Could be NOT tell me this ahead of time? Does he NOT realize that our wedding is NEXT SUNDAY???

Sorry...had to get that out

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all i can say is this... maybe you can take some comfort in knowing that you are not the only bride living this RIGHT THIS MINUTE. fh has been doing THE EXACT THING to me!!!

i feel your pain

what's still on your to-do list?

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Posted by AllJoy

I could see mine saying the same thing when the time rolls around. They just don't get it..........

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exactly... me and mine are in a fight, so he went off to his friends for the weekend. Easy for him. I'm still doing wedding planning stuff all weekend, and my heart's not even in it right now. . But, I would be doing everything myself even if he was here, so what's the difference?

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Posted by moonlitee

So I asked him 'when are we going to get all the things we need to do done'

his response

'what else do we have to get done?'

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I swear - they are just all clones of one another. My FH keeps asking the same question.

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Posted by October Bliss

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Posted by moonlitee

So I asked him 'when are we going to get all the things we need to do done'

his response

'what else do we have to get done?'

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I swear - they are just all clones of one another. My FH keeps asking the same question.

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At least I'm not alone. I am working on my programs right now...then I have do the tags for my favors. Tomorrow I have to go shopping for moms gifts and then start packing.
It seems like when one thing gets done I remember I have something esle to take care of

I told we have to do tags and we goes 'tags for what?'....I've only been telling him this for the past three days

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Posted by moonlitee

At least I'm not alone. I am working on my programs right now...then I have do the tags for my favors. Tomorrow I have to go shopping for moms gifts and then start packing.
It seems like when one thing gets done I remember I have something esle to take care of

I told we have to do tags and we goes 'tags for what?'....I've only been telling him this for the past three days

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Two days ago I sat next to him tying the ribbon onto each program. He looked at me and said 'how did you learn to do that?' but never offered to help!!

Favors - same thing. Stuffed every last one of them into the box by myself, and tied every last ribbon to seal the boxes.

Seating chart - again, same thing I did it, then he looked at it and said so and so can't sit there they don't know anyone else at that table. Hmm, since they are his friends, how on earth am I supposed to know who they know and who they don't?????? Know what?? Everyone is sitting where I put them, and if Cousin Whateverhisnameis thinks he can move his chair and sit someplace other than where I put him, he is sadly mistaken, b/c I will have him tossed for being disruptive.

I ask him to help me and he's like oh okay and then he starts complaining about how tired he is......uh don't tell me about being tired in the past week i've probablly had 8 hrs of sleep.

My FH did the same thing with the seating chart and I told him if he wants to put his two cents in he is going to have to start doing some work...ugh