shouldnt it be me who likes to spend and him telling me no ... i hate being the one to say no all the time! he is like a big kid who always wants a new toy bla bla bla ... and even with the wedding he is like whatever who cares how much it costs you only get married once lets just do it ... and doesnt care about the budget. .. and im walking around with my little planner talking about the budget ... BUT i guess thats why we are good match ... i need him to relax me and he needs me to help him with his limits! it just gets annoying always having to remind him that we are not rich and we need to stick to the budget!
flairforfashion
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My FH is the exact same way. He has no problem spending 10 bucks a day on lunch. Here I am screaming at him and showing him how much he wastes a month by calculating the costs of cigarettes, food and other BS stuff. It drives me insane! And I literally live on 5 bucks a day and usually only spend 2 bucks on either water or a snack. He laughs at me. And I yell at him. It's a beautiful thing. LOL. But, we have came to an agreement that once we get married, I manage the finances. And, he is saving now so I can't complain.
Mich2585
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i just find this so funny ... i always tell him that im the girl i should be the one spending haha instead im the one at burlington coat factory getting bcbg shoes half off! i just find it very funny! but as long as i know im not the only girl who has this issue! dont worry girls ... as long as they listen to us we will all be in good shape ... dont get me wrong a fight does come up every once in a while but over all, he does talk to me before buying anything expensive ... and then i usually talk him out of it. Ah the beauty of relationships!
