FH's Aunt ruined the surprise.....a little long...

So I went to FH's neice's christening on Sunday..we are both the godparents....the whole day goes by fine, and we go to the part at a hall afterward for some dinner.

Well, FH has some family that he isn't too fond of, and doens't really speak to. I am sitting with a bunch of his relatives trying to fit in, meeting new people. I've met his one aunt one time in my whole life, and it was at FH's sister's baby shower. So everyone is sitting and talking, and this aunt walks in, comes over, says hello to everyone...and the first words out of her mouth as she pulls out a chair to me are:

'So, you're shower is next weekend?' I looked up at her, and 5 other women looked at her and gasped....she ruined it!!!! She then says, 'Well just don't tell anyone I told you.' WHO DOES THAT? I would NEVER go up to a bride and say anything about her shower...

It was supposed to be a surprise, and I can't tell you how much I wanted it to be a surprise. I hate it when brides know about their shower beforehand. I told EVERYONE I wanted it to be a surprise. And 1 week before, she RUINS it!!

I told FH what she said to me bc he saw I was upset and wouldn't let me go back to the party until I told him, and he was furious! Everyone was trying to keep it a secret and she messed it up. I won't let him tell my bm's or our mothers bc I don't want to ruin the fun for them. And I don't want my family mad at his family. But I am so disappointed.

I can't get that surprise back, and I am so mad at this woman. I want to tell this woman how mad I am at her....Sorry, just needed to vent, I can't tell my friends otherwise they'll know I know...