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finally called the church

xBudgetBridex Posted:

finally called the church

called late yesterday afternoon and now I'm just waiting on the decan to call me back so nervous!

brnnglgn Posted:

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There is nothing to be nervous about. Although I was a little nervous bc I thought the building would fall down on me. Which church are you getting married at?

xBudgetBridex Posted:

finally called the church - Long Island Weddings

lmao that's exactly how I feel! that and I'm kinda afraid we might offend a priest. fh and I are not very religious he didn't want to hear God this god that. he wants to ask for the most non religious ceremony We can get....I keep trying to tell him we can't ask a priest that lol
st killian in Farmingdale. you?
Alimm729 Posted:

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Crashing - lol, because I feel very emotionally invested in your wedding now.

That church is gorgeous. A friend of mine got married there earlier this year and her pics are awesome. I'm sure it'll all work out. Don't be nervous!
xBudgetBridex Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

Crashing - lol, because I feel very emotionally invested in your wedding now.

That church is gorgeous. A friend of mine got married there earlier this year and her pics are awesome. I'm sure it'll all work out. Don't be nervous!


thank you for all your help!
I'm sorry I prob make u want to do this!
Amanda2022 Posted:

finally called the church - Long Island Weddings

Don't be nervous! I am not the most religious person myself, but FH went to Catholic school for many years and that is the church we are getting married in. I was nervous for the first meeting as well and nothing religious was brought up. We were just asked if we wanted a ceremony or a mass and we chose ceremony because its a Friday afternoon. The steps we have gone through so far have not been religious, its more about preparing us for married life.

Alimm729 Posted:

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Posted by xBudgetBridex


Posted by Alimm729

Crashing - lol, because I feel very emotionally invested in your wedding now.

That church is gorgeous. A friend of mine got married there earlier this year and her pics are awesome. I'm sure it'll all work out. Don't be nervous!


thank you for all your help!
I'm sorry I prob make u want to do this!



Not at all! Don't be silly!!
brnnglgn Posted:

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

lmao that's exactly how I feel! that and I'm kinda afraid we might offend a priest. fh and I are not very religious he didn't want to hear God this god that. he wants to ask for the most non religious ceremony We can get....I keep trying to tell him we can't ask a priest that lol
st killian in Farmingdale. you?



St Bernard's Levittown. I am/was the exact saw way. I actually eneded up meeting one of the priest from m the church at my pt not realizing that he is from the church we are getting married at. After talking to him about the wedding and life he set my mind at ease with the whole thing. He was actually really cool and laid back.

He got me even to go to church last week. Of course he used the pretense that him, FH and I were meeting RIGHT after mass to finish the paperwork so we can get started w pre cana.
andi13 Posted:

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Posted by brnnglgn

There is nothing to be nervous about. Although I was a little nervous bc I thought the building would fall down on me. Which church are you getting married at?



same!! it was really fine though
MrsSparacino2B Posted:

finally called the church - Long Island Weddings

FH and I booked our date at St. Kilian's this past spring and I was super nervous. So far that was the thing I was most nervous about, FH thought I was nuts for being that nervous. The decon or preist is just going to want to sit down with u check their availability and get to know you as a couple. Our Decon also went over the 'rules' that have to be followed ( cant throw rice,only one best and maid of honor allowed, where the photographer can and can't go etc...) it really wasn't bad at all! Good luck!!

xBudgetBridex Posted:

finally called the church - Long Island Weddings

I'm going to send you fm I have a few questions if u don't mind.

MrsSparacino2B Posted:

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

I'm going to send you fm I have a few questions if u don't mind.



Not at all, happy to help. You have FM!!
xBudgetBridex Posted:

finally called the church - Long Island Weddings

thanks that was very helpful! sorrty I didn't get back to u sooner.... blackFriday shopping

MrsSparacino2B Posted:

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

thanks that was very helpful! sorrty I didn't get back to u sooner.... blackFriday shopping



I'm so glad, and no worries!!I've been doing the same thing except I've been doing it all online this yr so I'm near my computer for once lol.

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