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FIRST QOTD!!!
Csarelakos
Posted: Jan 07, 2013 06:23 PM+

Posted: Jan 07, 2013 06:23 PM
FIRST QOTD!!!
My fh is kinda involved lol! He will come to appointments and bridal shows with me but hes left most of the decisions up to me! So far hes been to every vendor appt except for flowers! He's supportive but not over involved! :)
mmordocco
Posted: Jan 07, 2013 08:52 PM+

Posted: Jan 07, 2013 08:52 PM
FIRST QOTD!!!
My FH is involved... over involved!! and it's my own fault! lmaoIn the beginning I BEGGED him to plan with me... but now it's like I wanna say to him 'Stop butting in! This is what I want! It's MY wedding' lol. I guess I would much rather have him overly involved than not involved at all, so it's ok lol In the end, I usually get my way haha
cconaty94
Posted: Jan 07, 2013 09:00 PM+

Posted: Jan 07, 2013 09:00 PM
FIRST QOTD!!!
He is mildly involved (he came up with that description). Basically, he lets me do all of the planning and researching that makes me happy-- and boy, do I do a lot of this! Then, when I narrow down my ideas, I run them past him and he helps make the final decisions. His heart is there, he just doesn't understand the importance behind centerpieces and favors and escort cards!
Simonenarissa
Posted: Jan 07, 2013 09:57 PM+

Posted: Jan 07, 2013 09:57 PM
FIRST QOTD!!!
Right after we first got engaged, I asked him to tell me the things that he cares about (and the rest he wouldn't really care about) so that I don't bother him with every little detail. He said he cared about date, venue, dj, and somewhat the photographer. So these decisions we are making together, but I am doing all the research beforehand which is how I would want it anyway :)One funny moment we had was when I was discussing with him what I was thinking iof having the BMs wear and he threw out a really funny comment about his GMs, and he was very confused when I told him the two kind of have to be coordinated. After that he said 'well then don't make any wardrobe decisions without me!' Very cute :)
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