First RSVP 'Cancellation'!

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Posted by poeticmelody

People who cancel an rsvp on short notice just aren't aware of the costs involved...and the amount of time that goes into planning a wedding. We brides are pretty harsh on ourselves and we pay attention to details that guest wouldn't even notice...only really other brides do.

To be honest...before I started planning my own wedding I had no idea of all the expenses, the amount per person that you pay, and the money spent on weddings as a whole, and the energy it takes to plan a wedding....and a lot of other people are clueless too.

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While it is true for me too, that I didn't know how much planning and expense was involved in a wedding before my own, that doesn't meant you get excused from basic common manners. (and even if you don't know the cost or planning for a wedding, you still understand that it is a WEDDING and therefore rather important to the people inviting you). Even if you were invited to a wedding that was held in a backyard, cost nothing, and there was only punch and cookies afterwards, that doesn't mean you can RSVP when you feel like it and cancel an RSVP later because something else came up. This is just basic manners.

how rude!! although a no show would have been way ruder, but STILL! ugh. i am so dreading the stalking i am going to have to do after the rsvp date.

Really rude... Unreliable ppl!!!

wow!!!!!!!!! people r unreal

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Posted by littlepixie12

WOW.. thats beyone rude.. but thank goodness they let you know and just didnt show up! I would have been more mad if I paid for them and they didnt show!

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ITA!!! But I had one who rsvp'd yes and I see her everyday. SHE was counting down the days to the wedding and was soooo excited for us and guess what??? Her seat was the only empty one there. When I. Saw her at work she had a VERY lame excuse but then said her gift was in the mail...I'm still waiting!!!

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Posted by gip32680

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Posted by littlepixie12

WOW.. thats beyone rude.. but thank goodness they let you know and just didnt show up! I would have been more mad if I paid for them and they didnt show!

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ITA!!! But I had one who rsvp'd yes and I see her everyday. SHE was counting down the days to the wedding and was soooo excited for us and guess what??? Her seat was the only empty one there. When I. Saw her at work she had a VERY lame excuse but then said her gift was in the mail...I'm still waiting!!!

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I can't even believe it - you would think - if you don't want to go - just say so.. whats the big deal.. but to have you out $$ on top of it.. what a jerk

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Posted by Soon2BMrsC09

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Posted by gip32680

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Posted by littlepixie12

WOW.. thats beyone rude.. but thank goodness they let you know and just didnt show up! I would have been more mad if I paid for them and they didnt show!

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ITA!!! But I had one who rsvp'd yes and I see her everyday. SHE was counting down the days to the wedding and was soooo excited for us and guess what??? Her seat was the only empty one there. When I. Saw her at work she had a VERY lame excuse but then said her gift was in the mail...I'm still waiting!!!

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I can't even believe it - you would think - if you don't want to go - just say so.. whats the big deal.. but to have you out $$ on top of it.. what a jerk

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That's exactly how I feel. You would hurt my feelings ALOT more for making me spend $$ I don't have than for you to just be honest and say you can't come

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Posted by gip32680

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Posted by Soon2BMrsC09

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Posted by gip32680

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Posted by littlepixie12

WOW.. thats beyone rude.. but thank goodness they let you know and just didnt show up! I would have been more mad if I paid for them and they didnt show!

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ITA!!! But I had one who rsvp'd yes and I see her everyday. SHE was counting down the days to the wedding and was soooo excited for us and guess what??? Her seat was the only empty one there. When I. Saw her at work she had a VERY lame excuse but then said her gift was in the mail...I'm still waiting!!!

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I can't even believe it - you would think - if you don't want to go - just say so.. whats the big deal.. but to have you out $$ on top of it.. what a jerk

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That's exactly how I feel. You would hurt my feelings ALOT more for making me spend $$ I don't have than for you to just be honest and say you can't come

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I agree. I'm actually praying for a good amount of nos, but if you say you are coming, you better effing come!!!