That's great that Theresa won't post on a thread of someone she doesn't like, but this is a public board and anyone can read or post anything they want on here.
I just think that everyone should take a second before they post something and remember that they are WOMEN about to be married (or in some cases just married) and not children on a playground. Words can hurt and there is no need for nastiness from anyone. This should be a happy time for all and the friction that many of these posts cause is definately not good for the wedding stress