Flowers & Designs by Gina

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Posted by Moonmist09

i wish CS would leave this post permanently on top of theboard so that it doesn't move around and all the brides could check back and see what is going on with this vendor.

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Agreed

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Posted by marbear0112

Just because she contacted you does not mean you cannot get your money back. What she is doing is pure criminal action now -- she is stealing money and using her 'non-refundable' handwriting at the bottom of an illegitimate contract as an excuse to keep the money. Her deposits are refundable if she breached the contract, which she did when she started not showing up for weddings and lying about her reasons for doing so. She was not in the hospital and I have proof of so many girls who have emails from her during that time where she claimed she has been busy with weddings but would do their wedding and did not show up. I already filed against her in small claims, but more need to do to the same because she is a sick individual that is still trying to steal everyone's money. Once my wedding passes, I will be filing criminal action at the DA's office for larceny. For all you brides out there where Gina did not show up for your wedding, you should do the same. Then it will be in the DA's hands and they can send her to prison. It is absolutely unbelieveable and I am livid that she is still reaching out to people. She does not even have a website up anymore.

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I hope all of you listen to this poster and follow her advice. None of you should be losing money that I am sure you worked hard for and saved for because of a totally dishonest and sick vendor. Again, good luck girls.

 
When I heard about this I was a more than a bit shocked but after reading about the accident (if the case is a severe as some say) I feel truly horrible for what happened to Gina and unfortunately for how the bride(s) suffered as consequence. It was a series of unfortunate events but I’m hoping Gina is an honest business woman  (based on my interactions with her) and will refund (brides) money and costs incurred (at least that’s what one would hope).  The bride(s) have every right to be upset – Fact… but… I had the opportunity to look at the rational side of things:
I haven’t been on in a while because just had two recent death’s in my fiancé’s family and I can only say from personal experience – when tragedy strikes – little else is on your mind – My fiancés grandmother passed away the day before our intended wedding anniversary (had we chosen to get married in 2010) and I can say without a doubt in extreme cases a wedding comes second as a priority. Right now our weddings are one of our main priorities, but the second you bring a child into this world (if you do) that becomes priority.  I honestly wouldn’t blame Gina for placing her daughter before her business; I can only imagine the anguish but I also don’t know how I would feel if something went wrong on my wedding day (not good I would imagine) – in both of those situations priorities a line differently and a bad situation for both parties involved.
 
The bride(s) have yet to settle the dust with Gina for which they will hopefully provide an full update – regarding compensation/explanation or further action.  The bride(s) have every right to be upset - god forbid the outcome of this accident had been more severe – I also think reactions would be much different. I think this is a matter between Gina and her clients (unfortunate of course) but I think final judgment can only be assed after the final outcome of this situation is settled and keep reading for extra info regarding the famous link…

Hi everyone =)... long post coming up:
 
My intent is not to defend, but merely shed some light onto hasty assumptions (granted I can assume no one would want to encounter this experience) and provide a factual account of extensive research going off clues i've read in the posts… which will hopefully help some girls lean back and have a broader perspective to reflect with… I've been working on this case (if you will) since August 28. It really sucks what happened… but I do think Gina has had a stellar reputation and would never purposely harm a bride – (she’s a doll and has thus far gone above and beyond expectations… minus the heart attack I nearly had when reading these posts…) I have to say this in her favor because I actually asked about a back-up plan and I booked with her anyway because she simply blew me away with her sample centerpiece and this (these) is (are) the first negative review(s) I’ve ever read (a lot can be said in favor of what was reputation) - I think the series of events was a rarity not a normality…however final verdict is still out. I do think she could of handled this a lot differently - but I'm not a consultant and everyone has there way of handling things (leave that at that) but there is absolutely no excuse for false promises and no follow-up / refunds??… which is why I looked into this matter so deeply. I'm giving you both the bad and good, Straight up facts for you to make your own call…
 
All that being said – I have been quietly reading the boards but have refrained from posting until I confronted the situation personally and garnered some facts for myself.  Given the drama, speculation and “opinions” its all a little overwhelming and confusing to say the least: this particular instance (for me) was like a maze of conclusions with no way out – every turn kept getting weirder and leading elsewhere…
Granted there is no reason for someone to trust me other than the fact that I have actually met some brides in person (get together) and that I have an upcoming wedding in 2011… so take it or leave it… but rather than go on hearsay or opinion I decided to do some sleuth work and come upon my own conclusion…
 
The only reason why I’m posting this response now is because I spoke with GINA herself – IN PERSON. I think it also helps that I demanded another form of contact (other than her office phone/ cell) which helped me get in touch with her a lot sooner. So here goes… Ps. I provided the conversation so some brides can followup on some of the things she said, I'm sending her a copy of this post, so theres nothing to hide.
 
Saturday August 28 – I showed up at her house.  She wasn’t home and her brother addressed my concerns. He said she mentally broken down and confirmed her being in the hospital.  I asked if she would be able to do my wedding and he said she would be fine in time but I said I needed a way to follow-up with him/or Gina and he then gave me their actual HOME number to follow-up with the mother (though I don’t know why she would have more authority but so be it ...) 
Monday August 30 – Called and spoke with Gina’s mom. She confirmed her being in the hospital and told me she would follow-up with me (she said nothing else and I really wasn’t interested in hearing from anyone else except Gina at this point) – she also asked about my arrangements, and contract but I really didn’t want to give her more information than needed (I don’t want my contract outsourced – I want facts and action– end of story)
Sidenote:  While I appreciate the information given to me by the mother and brother – I still want the primary information from Gina – this was simply  the best I could do in her absence...
It took everything in me to be patient and actually refrain from calling her mother up again or post on the forum… but seriously – where was that going to lead me?   
September 8 – I hadn’t heard from the mother and figured I gave it a week already – so I decided to call because there must be some way to actually get in-touch w/ Gina by now… I’ve been as patient as can be… TADA – Gina was home and I FINALLY spoke with her. I wasn’t about to attack (that’s not the best way to resolve things) but I don’t beat around the bush either – so I asked: Ps. This is the brief version but factual so you get the point…
T: what is going on??  I’m hearing all sorts of stories but I want to hear what you have to say.
G: I was in an accident – I was in the hospital – my daughter was hurt with a bruised leg and my lung was collapsed.
Sidenote: She says she had a collapsed lung – and she showed me the incision, I also asked to see her papers but as this is her personal information – she’s not obligated to show me; however prior to my asking, she had said she had the papers and if necessary in extreme cases such as the missed weddings she’d be willing to show those girls. She also gave me the name of the hospital she was in –LIJ–  I called the hospital and unfortunately they aren’t allowed to release patient history meaning if they are already checked out of the system they can’t go in the system and tell you when they we’re in.  Unfortunately there are many locations for this particular hospital so it might be a little tough finding out which one.  The fact that she showed me her incision (yes I asked to see it), released the hospital name and confirmed she would at least be willing to show paperwork to the girls affected, calmed my fears a bit + she’s been super easy to get a hold of (in my case) and very responsive as of 9/8/10~ otherwise I really wouldn’t have any compassion for the situation.
T: I’m sorry to hear that. You missed three weddings & a couple events, given you’re situation I would understand but are you doing anything to rectify the problem and why no communication?
G: I’m truly sorry about missing the events, the flowers we’re in my garage and ready to go but this happened and unfortunately my cell phone got ruined in the accident and I didn’t have anyone to further assist me (at the time). I have hired two guys to assist me with upcoming weddings and I am going to refund the brides money (those affected by the incident)
T: Have you had any cancellations?  Sorry to say – given all the speculation and hearsay and lack of response – your rep went from FAB to DRAB
G: Some brides cancelled – their deposits are non refundable (per contracts) but I will compensate the cost with things I planned to order for them or give the their money’s worth.  I understand some brides with nearby dates cancelled  and hired new florists, while I can’t return their deposits, I will absolutely do everything in my power to ease tensions of those affected.
T: Okay.. so just to let you know your brother said you mentally broke down --- what’s up with that? Because I pretty much had you pictured in the funny farm – And I’m being honest here – I haven’t posted regarding this topic (she is well aware of the website and it’s feedback) so please value my credibility when I tell you this is what he confirmed – I have a feeling that most girls are having the strong reactions within regards to your whereabouts because this is what he told me and probably the source of where this speculation or conclusion is coming from…
G: WHAT? I can’t believe that, I was in the hospital and yes I broke down given the situation, my daughter is my only child – I’m the only thing she has and she is my first and foremost priority so I was broken down given the situation and concerning my health… maybe that’s what he meant… me and my brother don’t have the best relationship but I don’t see why he would say this unless he didn’t want to involve anyone in my personal matters but I will talk to him...
Sidenote: her brother denied he ever said this to me!! I called him out on it (in person, to his face, in front of Gina – I have nothing to hide and I’ll be damned if he makes me look like a liar…) … My fiancé was with me when he said this to us– I have no malicious intent toward her brother but he’s trying to cover his blunder (he had told Gina he never said those comments) and this pisses me off.  Why would I make it up?? His response – was “ehhh it is what it is, what was I supposed to say, sh*t happens, its all good…” Ughh – so frustrating – but at least this rumor source can be laid to rest & not to be trusted… if he didn’t know anything, he should have kept his mouth shut!
T: Okay – what about this DWI business? There’s links and posts and Jail mentioned…
G: There is more then one Gina Laplaca in Queens – call my tanning salon.  My married name wasn’t Hughes!  No way did I ever get a DWI – this is completely false.
Sidenote1: she was able to give me her previous married name (not hughes) but I wont post it because I consider it personal information.
I called her tanning salon but they were not able to confirm there was more than one Laplaca – they said they only knew of one. Apparently according to the contact, Gina and this particular salon don’t have a good history (that’s all I’m going to say)  so I don’t know why she would refer me to them…– but I confronted her on this (keep reading)
Sidenote2: I actually called the City Of Yonkers – criminal court and asked them if there was an appearance ticket for Gina Laplaca-Hughes and gave them the DWI details listed on the aforementioned website– they said they had no record of it in the system and/or nothing has come in as of yet but because it was state police it was probably in the mail – they also said they knew nothing of the website so the couldn’t confirm its validity. I followed up on this – update below.
T: Okay – can I come over and see how you’re doing? You do great work – and honestly I’m glad you’re doing well, I know you get very close with your brides as I consider myself one of them so don’t get me wrong but I could give a sh*t less about what other issues/ rumors/hearsay are surrounding this situation so long as you get the job done and you can prove your claims…
G: You can come over anytime.
T: See you Saturday
G: I’ll be working on XXX’s wedding but I’ll be home.
Saturday Sept. 11 – I showed up to Gina’s house, the garage was in full swing for a wedding she’s prepping this weekend , the flowers were beautiful.
Sidenote: Gina claimed she was working on a wedding, so when talking to her I asked for the brides name (I sort of figured it out) but I made sure to follow up with the bride prior to visiting.
Sidenote2: I actually spoke to the bride she was doing the wedding for and confirmed Gina’s presence at the event – feedback -beautiful turn-out!! Hopefully the bride will be able to provide an update when she returns from her honeymoon. I didn’t see the wedding for myself – I have done part of investigating but far be it from me to show up at this girls wedding and hunt Gina down. I’ll investigate to reach a factual conclusion but I’m not a stalker.
T: I called your tanning salon – and they weren’t able to confirm more than one GL.
G: BS I’ll go with you right now, they have fingerprints which pulls up the address and everything
T: ummm, thanks for offering but no that’s okay, just letting you know (at least she was willing to confront it)
Sidenote1: She’s driven out of her way to pick me up before to get to her house when I was first booking a florist and coming from the subway – so I don’t doubt she would have gotten in her car and driven me and my fiancé down to her tanning salon.  Also I was baffled as to why the salon rep called Gina and told her that I had called to inquire because that would defeat the purpose especially if they can’t confirm what Gina was claiming but yet Gina knew I had called…weird…
Sidenote2: Via Peoplesmart & Radaris search engine there is one Gina R. Laplaca in Fresh meadows and one Gina R. Laplaca located in Astoria. Regarding  the possible relations – it does list a James R. Hughes Jr.?? I know for a fact she doesn’t have a son but could this be the possible ex-husband? (Even though she said she had a different married last name)…
 
Conclusion- I did my research and I am going based on factual information. I patiently waited until I was able to speak w/ Gina herself and fact checked/ followed up on all sources available to me. I can’t make a judgment call as to why LIW removed her as a vendor, but as they we’re not able to further explain the removal (which is understood) – this doesn’t really affect my conclusion. However, Gina did say CS gave her a choice in the matter and that she wants nothing to do with these attacks, so she chose to not be listed as a vendor….
There’s been tons of hearsay and opinions and speculation (all within their own right) but for me the facts that counted were 1) The fact that she was willing to show me her garage and flowers for this girls wedding, proved she’s not trying to escape with peoples money.  My fiancés birthday was this weekend and he was pretty mad I was making him stop at Gina’s on the way to LI – but even Mr. skeptical said she’s back at work and obviously her brother didn’t know which end was up…  I always believe each story has two sides (I’d be livid if my wedding were missed) but if she can show discharge papers to the brides affected or a police report, and/or give a full refund... the series of events can’t be changed at this point but action speaks louder then words and in this case – money talks to the tune of a refund (any updates)???… 2) Gina’s friendly, and she talks to you like a neighbor not necessarily like a storeowner,  she doesn’t have the most polished speech,  I asked her about the vague response she posted  to which she confirmed – she actually missed four weddings and one event .  She says she wrote the reply in distress, and while it wasn’t the best she stands by what she said regarding making it up to the brides directly affected and will work with the brides who cancelled to reach some form of agreement regarding non-refundable deposits 3) She’s been responsive and offered a revision in my contract (in case anything occurs – there will be a backup plan) 4) According to her salon – there is not more than one GL, according to people search engine there is more than one listing. 5) I saw the messed up land rover tire and rim on the side of her house from the accident and her new phone (hefty investment/effort to pose as a cover up wouldn’t you think?) Last but not least:  6) City of Yonkers court – I followed up and there is a ticket in the system.  I confirmed with the representative that this is for an arraignment hearing and it is open to the public.  I won’t be able to attend but should any of you ladies choose to go it will be open to the public 9/16 @ 9:30a – to confirm once and for all. If PIQ (person in question) does not show up there will be an arrest for her warrant (if she is the Gina in question).  PIQ has already been charged with a 1192.3 which is classified as a misdemeanor DWI – due to the fact that “she” is a first time offender they will unlikely be taken into custody  (due to new tough laws – PIQ might???) but in any event license suspension will be in effect due to the refusal of a chemical test. A lawyer is strongly recommended for the case and an attorney could probably reduce charges to a conditional discharge or misdemeanor violation classified as a 1192.1 (this is what I was told - just wanted to provide you with some insight).  If PIQ requests use of 'her' license for work reasons, the lawyer could petition for a hardship hearing (within 3 business days) in which they could request use of the license for work, w/ witnesses etc. 
 
Verdict – Based on facts gathered & my interaction w/ her + the wedding she did this past weekend, I would be ready to stand by her and her work. To me it sounds like an unfortunate event she encountered  but she’s previously held a rock solid reputation (there’s a reason why she was booked w/ these brides in the first place) and I think she will continue to do amazing work, and is a kind hearted person (in my interactions).  I personally think its not about how you fall – its how you get up…
9/16 will be the final judgment day.  (Anyone planning on going & are pictures allowed)?? Let me know as this might be the last piece in the puzzle. Feel free to fm me. 
 
I hope this helped some brides draw a more factual based conclusion. Be it you decide to stay with her, cancel & get something in place of your deposit, or start some of your own research regarding your own situations.   I will say to those affected (myself included) before pursuing any action (don’t just go by this but feel free to take the same steps I did) make sure that you –yourself- do the legwork to make a well informed decision and have a case for yourself (if need be) -  its not about reading a forum because in the end this is all opinion and can be classified as hearsay – (even including this post). I have been working on this post on and off since August 28 – I feel bad for brides who were affected and those who could potentially be affected, because I myself was one of them.  It was easy to feel compassion and even easier to jump to conclusions based on the whirlwind of rumors, but the hardest thing in this process was being patient and following through with research, and ultimately deciding whether or not I could trust this vendor judging by my OWN experience.  I believe weddings we’re missed (FACT), I believe her reputation was hurt by this (at least on LIW) (FACT), I don’t believe she will take peoples money& run.  She does amazing work and thus far has been very responsive.  I think when approached respectably & not in an accusatory manner – you will get answers you seek. I could be potentially be affected by all of this – heck I was strongly considering whether or not to post this and eat a wasted effort, fast forward 8 months and we’ll see.  I know some brides are still taking the “wait and see approach” and refuse to post for fear that other brides will attack or pose an intervention, but here it is take it or leave it; It’s very easy to post links or accuse someone of this or that and jump on hype – I’m trying to make the most well informed decision for my case – taking in the bad and the good. I’ve heard anticipatory breach of contract being thrown out there but ladies (please note no harm meant just IMO)… unless the claim is not solely based on the responses from this website and  there is substantial follow-up with brides in person (meaning an actual witness who can testify in favor) - not just email, or a strong fact checking of your resources, and if the effort to see Gina in person has been made (more than once and not just a phone call) well then best of luck!! 
There’s still the pending desk appearance if any one is interested in attending, unfortunately I can’t make it otherwise I would be there.  Anyone who plans on going – please feel free to send me an fm as I am interested in this outcome as well… Though my wedding is in may – I’ve been very concerned, I went to her house – I mainly reside NYC and visit my parents in Suffolk county every so often on weekends (it was an actual effort to go to her place of residence TWICE!!)… I figured if someone were to show up at my residence (place of business) &  yell at me and attack x 20- I probably would freak and avoid the circumstance as well… or at least take some time in responding… so I approached matters the PC way… She claimed something so I followed up – i.e. she claimed she was working on a wedding this past weekend, so I confirmed with the bride and went to see the reception flowers for my self – basically – I laid everything out – I called out the facts, here’s what it is  - now go...  The best attack is a good defense.
 
Best of luck to all those involved. I hope this helps shed some clarity in an otherwise tipped balance scale. HTH.

Im sorry but if she wanted to clear her name and make well with those weddings she missed, WHY is she avoiding talking to those girls??? Those girls have been emailing and calling and nothing. I dont get that at all. Still seems way too shady IMO.

I met Gina too, and I thought she was very nice and did amazing work. I feel horrible if her daughter was hurt, and I dont know what went down, but she needs to get in touch with those girls she missed and give them an explanation and their money back. What about the girls she said she would be at their wedding (after the accident in Sept), and then didn't show or call or email??

If her daughter truly was in an accident, I do feel bad for her because of the situation.

However, you said that you saw her on September 8th. She had text messaged me around the 22nd of August telling me that everything was going 'fine' for my wedding and that her and her daughter were out of the hospital. That was the only time that I heard from her prior to my 9/6/10 wedding. I had left her several text messages, e-mails, phone calls with my name and number and she never returned anything.

I went to her house twice and her mother and father who I spoke to on different occasions never said that she was in the hospital...they told me that she was missing and basically told me that she wasn't going to make it to my wedding and that was around the last week of August.

I just sent her an e-mail today which I am still waiting for her to answer... So, if she spoke to you on the 8th, that was two days after my wedding and I still have no explanation from her directly and no idea when I am going to be refunded my deposit.

Thanks for that long and informative post. I read the entire thing. I'm confused by some things (like the tanning salon, not sure what that has to do with anything).

I will be honest, I myself loved Gina's work. When all of this happened I waited to see what happened with the following weekends (she was still a no-show according to the posts here).

IMO if she has not yet refunded the brides who she had admitted to missing I have no faith in her.

Yes her rep was stellar before this but to me in business you 1st take care of the ones you wronged and then look to the future and try to rebuild your rep.

I know life happens and being a mother myself, my children do come first before anything, but now that she seems to be better take care of the mess ups.

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Posted by marbear0112

I have been a member since January. I'm an attorney in NYC and work a ton of hours so I normally do not actively participate on this site. However, this Gina incident directly impacted me so I have been participating in these posts to figure out what is going on as well as help others. As I told a few people, not everyone is a poster yet feel LI Weddings has been exceptionally helpful for brides wedding planning who do not have tons of free time. It's pretty petty to be trying to call out people on this site because there are tons of ladies that are exceptionally grateful for all the good advice provided. With my respect to my wedding being in October, I am suing her for anticipatory repudiation of my contract -- you need not wait until the contract is actually breached. She clearly gave reason to believe she would not perform her end of the bargain, through her actions with other brides and her lies -- so I am asking for the 1500 I paid for as a deposit. I've been talking with many brides through both FM and email, so I do not feel it is necessary to defend myself because I only posted 6 times. In case you are still suspicious, my fiance propsed on Nov 1st at the NYC marathon last year. I'm getting married this October, and very excited despite this Gina garbage. I am posting to keep other affected brides posted...which is what this thread was created for.

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i'm not looking to pick a fight, i was just curious. fair enough! best of luck to you.

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Yes I have been talking to this poster regarding this since we are in the same boat. Just because you don't spend your entire life on this site doesn't mean she isn't legit.

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amen!

A quick update my missed wedding was a mth ago on monday and STILL NO RESOLUTION!!!!!!!!! So I have NO FAITH in her AT ALL. Atleast u girls all have or had a back up plan I had nothing. Picture ur wedding day and sitting around hoping flowers show up and NOTHING. Then the fact I'm still waiting for some type of fix for the problem. It makes me so mad that she can keep sayinf she's so sorry but yet don't do anything to help. I do feel sorry IF she was in an accident but I also feel now that I should have been contacted for a refund. I don't wanna hear anything at this point. I'm just trying to warn u girls to have a back up. Gina does do nice work but think is the chance ur taking worth it.

If anyone needs anything feel free to fm

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Posted by babsbeark

A quick update my missed wedding was a mth ago on monday and STILL NO RESOLUTION!!!!!!!!! So I have NO FAITH in her AT ALL. Atleast u girls all have or had a back up plan I had nothing. Picture ur wedding day and sitting around hoping flowers show up and NOTHING. Then the fact I'm still waiting for some type of fix for the problem. It makes me so mad that she can keep sayinf she's so sorry but yet don't do anything to help. I do feel sorry IF she was in an accident but I also feel now that I should have been contacted for a refund. I don't wanna hear anything at this point. I'm just trying to warn u girls to have a back up. Gina does do nice work but think is the chance ur taking worth it.

If anyone needs anything feel free to fm

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Thank you so much for continueing to keep us updated that you have not had contact from her. Your post after your HM was the main reason I went elsewhere and cut my losses.

Gina is trying to salvage what she has left... that doesn't mean you should feel obligated to stick by her side. If you believe in her that much, great! Good luck to you. Otherwise, I would still be worried up until the day that the flowers wouldn't come or still wouldn't be amazing enough to go through all this work and stress. I never needed to go to my florist beyond my sample and final payment and they were great. I couldn't imagine doing all this detective work and hounding to feel safe with a vendor. She is costing you money in phone calls and car rides and aggravation.

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Posted by Taunita

 
When I heard about this I was a more than a bit shocked but after reading about the accident (if the case is a severe as some say) I feel truly horrible for what happened to Gina and unfortunately for how the bride(s) suffered as consequence. It was a series of unfortunate events but I’m hoping Gina is an honest business woman  (based on my interactions with her) and will refund (brides) money and costs incurred (at least that’s what one would hope).  The bride(s) have every right to be upset – Fact… but… I had the opportunity to look at the rational side of things:
I haven’t been on in a while because just had two recent death’s in my fiancé’s family and I can only say from personal experience – when tragedy strikes – little else is on your mind – My fiancés grandmother passed away the day before our intended wedding anniversary (had we chosen to get married in 2010) and I can say without a doubt in extreme cases a wedding comes second as a priority. Right now our weddings are one of our main priorities, but the second you bring a child into this world (if you do) that becomes priority.  I honestly wouldn’t blame Gina for placing her daughter before her business; I can only imagine the anguish but I also don’t know how I would feel if something went wrong on my wedding day (not good I would imagine) – in both of those situations priorities a line differently and a bad situation for both parties involved.
 
The bride(s) have yet to settle the dust with Gina for which they will hopefully provide an full update – regarding compensation/explanation or further action.  The bride(s) have every right to be upset - god forbid the outcome of this accident had been more severe – I also think reactions would be much different. I think this is a matter between Gina and her clients (unfortunate of course) but I think final judgment can only be assed after the final outcome of this situation is settled and keep reading for extra info regarding the famous link…

Hi everyone =)... long post coming up:
 
My intent is not to defend, but merely shed some light onto hasty assumptions (granted I can assume no one would want to encounter this experience) and provide a factual account of extensive research going off clues i've read in the posts… which will hopefully help some girls lean back and have a broader perspective to reflect with… I've been working on this case (if you will) since August 28. It really sucks what happened… but I do think Gina has had a stellar reputation and would never purposely harm a bride – (she’s a doll and has thus far gone above and beyond expectations… minus the heart attack I nearly had when reading these posts…) I have to say this in her favor because I actually asked about a back-up plan and I booked with her anyway because she simply blew me away with her sample centerpiece and this (these) is (are) the first negative review(s) I’ve ever read (a lot can be said in favor of what was reputation) - I think the series of events was a rarity not a normality…however final verdict is still out. I do think she could of handled this a lot differently - but I'm not a consultant and everyone has there way of handling things (leave that at that) but there is absolutely no excuse for false promises and no follow-up / refunds??… which is why I looked into this matter so deeply. I'm giving you both the bad and good, Straight up facts for you to make your own call…
 
All that being said – I have been quietly reading the boards but have refrained from posting until I confronted the situation personally and garnered some facts for myself.  Given the drama, speculation and “opinions” its all a little overwhelming and confusing to say the least: this particular instance (for me) was like a maze of conclusions with no way out – every turn kept getting weirder and leading elsewhere…
Granted there is no reason for someone to trust me other than the fact that I have actually met some brides in person (get together) and that I have an upcoming wedding in 2011… so take it or leave it… but rather than go on hearsay or opinion I decided to do some sleuth work and come upon my own conclusion…
 
The only reason why I’m posting this response now is because I spoke with GINA herself – IN PERSON. I think it also helps that I demanded another form of contact (other than her office phone/ cell) which helped me get in touch with her a lot sooner. So here goes… Ps. I provided the conversation so some brides can followup on some of the things she said, I'm sending her a copy of this post, so theres nothing to hide.
 
Saturday August 28 – I showed up at her house.  She wasn’t home and her brother addressed my concerns. He said she mentally broken down and confirmed her being in the hospital.  I asked if she would be able to do my wedding and he said she would be fine in time but I said I needed a way to follow-up with him/or Gina and he then gave me their actual HOME number to follow-up with the mother (though I don’t know why she would have more authority but so be it ...) 
Monday August 30 – Called and spoke with Gina’s mom. She confirmed her being in the hospital and told me she would follow-up with me (she said nothing else and I really wasn’t interested in hearing from anyone else except Gina at this point) – she also asked about my arrangements, and contract but I really didn’t want to give her more information than needed (I don’t want my contract outsourced – I want facts and action– end of story)
Sidenote:  While I appreciate the information given to me by the mother and brother – I still want the primary information from Gina – this was simply  the best I could do in her absence...
It took everything in me to be patient and actually refrain from calling her mother up again or post on the forum… but seriously – where was that going to lead me?   
September 8 – I hadn’t heard from the mother and figured I gave it a week already – so I decided to call because there must be some way to actually get in-touch w/ Gina by now… I’ve been as patient as can be… TADA – Gina was home and I FINALLY spoke with her. I wasn’t about to attack (that’s not the best way to resolve things) but I don’t beat around the bush either – so I asked: Ps. This is the brief version but factual so you get the point…
T: what is going on??  I’m hearing all sorts of stories but I want to hear what you have to say.
G: I was in an accident – I was in the hospital – my daughter was hurt with a bruised leg and my lung was collapsed.
Sidenote: She says she had a collapsed lung – and she showed me the incision, I also asked to see her papers but as this is her personal information – she’s not obligated to show me; however prior to my asking, she had said she had the papers and if necessary in extreme cases such as the missed weddings she’d be willing to show those girls. She also gave me the name of the hospital she was in –LIJ–  I called the hospital and unfortunately they aren’t allowed to release patient history meaning if they are already checked out of the system they can’t go in the system and tell you when they we’re in.  Unfortunately there are many locations for this particular hospital so it might be a little tough finding out which one.  The fact that she showed me her incision (yes I asked to see it), released the hospital name and confirmed she would at least be willing to show paperwork to the girls affected, calmed my fears a bit + she’s been super easy to get a hold of (in my case) and very responsive as of 9/8/10~ otherwise I really wouldn’t have any compassion for the situation.
T: I’m sorry to hear that. You missed three weddings & a couple events, given you’re situation I would understand but are you doing anything to rectify the problem and why no communication?
G: I’m truly sorry about missing the events, the flowers we’re in my garage and ready to go but this happened and unfortunately my cell phone got ruined in the accident and I didn’t have anyone to further assist me (at the time). I have hired two guys to assist me with upcoming weddings and I am going to refund the brides money (those affected by the incident)
T: Have you had any cancellations?  Sorry to say – given all the speculation and hearsay and lack of response – your rep went from FAB to DRAB
G: Some brides cancelled – their deposits are non refundable (per contracts) but I will compensate the cost with things I planned to order for them or give the their money’s worth.  I understand some brides with nearby dates cancelled  and hired new florists, while I can’t return their deposits, I will absolutely do everything in my power to ease tensions of those affected.
T: Okay.. so just to let you know your brother said you mentally broke down --- what’s up with that? Because I pretty much had you pictured in the funny farm – And I’m being honest here – I haven’t posted regarding this topic (she is well aware of the website and it’s feedback) so please value my credibility when I tell you this is what he confirmed – I have a feeling that most girls are having the strong reactions within regards to your whereabouts because this is what he told me and probably the source of where this speculation or conclusion is coming from…
G: WHAT? I can’t believe that, I was in the hospital and yes I broke down given the situation, my daughter is my only child – I’m the only thing she has and she is my first and foremost priority so I was broken down given the situation and concerning my health… maybe that’s what he meant… me and my brother don’t have the best relationship but I don’t see why he would say this unless he didn’t want to involve anyone in my personal matters but I will talk to him...
Sidenote: her brother denied he ever said this to me!! I called him out on it (in person, to his face, in front of Gina – I have nothing to hide and I’ll be damned if he makes me look like a liar…) … My fiancé was with me when he said this to us– I have no malicious intent toward her brother but he’s trying to cover his blunder (he had told Gina he never said those comments) and this pisses me off.  Why would I make it up?? His response – was “ehhh it is what it is, what was I supposed to say, sh*t happens, its all good…” Ughh – so frustrating – but at least this rumor source can be laid to rest & not to be trusted… if he didn’t know anything, he should have kept his mouth shut!
T: Okay – what about this DWI business? There’s links and posts and Jail mentioned…
G: There is more then one Gina Laplaca in Queens – call my tanning salon.  My married name wasn’t Hughes!  No way did I ever get a DWI – this is completely false.
Sidenote1: she was able to give me her previous married name (not hughes) but I wont post it because I consider it personal information.
I called her tanning salon but they were not able to confirm there was more than one Laplaca – they said they only knew of one. Apparently according to the contact, Gina and this particular salon don’t have a good history (that’s all I’m going to say)  so I don’t know why she would refer me to them…– but I confronted her on this (keep reading)
Sidenote2: I actually called the City Of Yonkers – criminal court and asked them if there was an appearance ticket for Gina Laplaca-Hughes and gave them the DWI details listed on the aforementioned website– they said they had no record of it in the system and/or nothing has come in as of yet but because it was state police it was probably in the mail – they also said they knew nothing of the website so the couldn’t confirm its validity. I followed up on this – update below.
T: Okay – can I come over and see how you’re doing? You do great work – and honestly I’m glad you’re doing well, I know you get very close with your brides as I consider myself one of them so don’t get me wrong but I could give a sh*t less about what other issues/ rumors/hearsay are surrounding this situation so long as you get the job done and you can prove your claims…
G: You can come over anytime.
T: See you Saturday
G: I’ll be working on XXX’s wedding but I’ll be home.
Saturday Sept. 11 – I showed up to Gina’s house, the garage was in full swing for a wedding she’s prepping this weekend , the flowers were beautiful.
Sidenote: Gina claimed she was working on a wedding, so when talking to her I asked for the brides name (I sort of figured it out) but I made sure to follow up with the bride prior to visiting.
Sidenote2: I actually spoke to the bride she was doing the wedding for and confirmed Gina’s presence at the event – feedback -beautiful turn-out!! Hopefully the bride will be able to provide an update when she returns from her honeymoon. I didn’t see the wedding for myself – I have done part of investigating but far be it from me to show up at this girls wedding and hunt Gina down. I’ll investigate to reach a factual conclusion but I’m not a stalker.
T: I called your tanning salon – and they weren’t able to confirm more than one GL.
G: BS I’ll go with you right now, they have fingerprints which pulls up the address and everything
T: ummm, thanks for offering but no that’s okay, just letting you know (at least she was willing to confront it)
Sidenote1: She’s driven out of her way to pick me up before to get to her house when I was first booking a florist and coming from the subway – so I don’t doubt she would have gotten in her car and driven me and my fiancé down to her tanning salon.  Also I was baffled as to why the salon rep called Gina and told her that I had called to inquire because that would defeat the purpose especially if they can’t confirm what Gina was claiming but yet Gina knew I had called…weird…
Sidenote2: Via Peoplesmart & Radaris search engine there is one Gina R. Laplaca in Fresh meadows and one Gina R. Laplaca located in Astoria. Regarding  the possible relations – it does list a James R. Hughes Jr.?? I know for a fact she doesn’t have a son but could this be the possible ex-husband? (Even though she said she had a different married last name)…
 
Conclusion- I did my research and I am going based on factual information. I patiently waited until I was able to speak w/ Gina herself and fact checked/ followed up on all sources available to me. I can’t make a judgment call as to why LIW removed her as a vendor, but as they we’re not able to further explain the removal (which is understood) – this doesn’t really affect my conclusion. However, Gina did say CS gave her a choice in the matter and that she wants nothing to do with these attacks, so she chose to not be listed as a vendor….
There’s been tons of hearsay and opinions and speculation (all within their own right) but for me the facts that counted were 1) The fact that she was willing to show me her garage and flowers for this girls wedding, proved she’s not trying to escape with peoples money.  My fiancés birthday was this weekend and he was pretty mad I was making him stop at Gina’s on the way to LI – but even Mr. skeptical said she’s back at work and obviously her brother didn’t know which end was up…  I always believe each story has two sides (I’d be livid if my wedding were missed) but if she can show discharge papers to the brides affected or a police report, and/or give a full refund... the series of events can’t be changed at this point but action speaks louder then words and in this case – money talks to the tune of a refund (any updates)???… 2) Gina’s friendly, and she talks to you like a neighbor not necessarily like a storeowner,  she doesn’t have the most polished speech,  I asked her about the vague response she posted  to which she confirmed – she actually missed four weddings and one event .  She says she wrote the reply in distress, and while it wasn’t the best she stands by what she said regarding making it up to the brides directly affected and will work with the brides who cancelled to reach some form of agreement regarding non-refundable deposits 3) She’s been responsive and offered a revision in my contract (in case anything occurs – there will be a backup plan) 4) According to her salon – there is not more than one GL, according to people search engine there is more than one listing. 5) I saw the messed up land rover tire and rim on the side of her house from the accident and her new phone (hefty investment/effort to pose as a cover up wouldn’t you think?) Last but not least:  6) City of Yonkers court – I followed up and there is a ticket in the system.  I confirmed with the representative that this is for an arraignment hearing and it is open to the public.  I won’t be able to attend but should any of you ladies choose to go it will be open to the public 9/16 @ 9:30a – to confirm once and for all. If PIQ (person in question) does not show up there will be an arrest for her warrant (if she is the Gina in question).  PIQ has already been charged with a 1192.3 which is classified as a misdemeanor DWI – due to the fact that “she” is a first time offender they will unlikely be taken into custody  (due to new tough laws – PIQ might???) but in any event license suspension will be in effect due to the refusal of a chemical test. A lawyer is strongly recommended for the case and an attorney could probably reduce charges to a conditional discharge or misdemeanor violation classified as a 1192.1 (this is what I was told - just wanted to provide you with some insight).  If PIQ requests use of 'her' license for work reasons, the lawyer could petition for a hardship hearing (within 3 business days) in which they could request use of the license for work, w/ witnesses etc. 
 
Verdict – Based on facts gathered & my interaction w/ her + the wedding she did this past weekend, I would be ready to stand by her and her work. To me it sounds like an unfortunate event she encountered  but she’s previously held a rock solid reputation (there’s a reason why she was booked w/ these brides in the first place) and I think she will continue to do amazing work, and is a kind hearted person (in my interactions).  I personally think its not about how you fall – its how you get up…
9/16 will be the final judgment day.  (Anyone planning on going & are pictures allowed)?? Let me know as this might be the last piece in the puzzle. Feel free to fm me. 
 
I hope this helped some brides draw a more factual based conclusion. Be it you decide to stay with her, cancel & get something in place of your deposit, or start some of your own research regarding your own situations.   I will say to those affected (myself included) before pursuing any action (don’t just go by this but feel free to take the same steps I did) make sure that you –yourself- do the legwork to make a well informed decision and have a case for yourself (if need be) -  its not about reading a forum because in the end this is all opinion and can be classified as hearsay – (even including this post). I have been working on this post on and off since August 28 – I feel bad for brides who were affected and those who could potentially be affected, because I myself was one of them.  It was easy to feel compassion and even easier to jump to conclusions based on the whirlwind of rumors, but the hardest thing in this process was being patient and following through with research, and ultimately deciding whether or not I could trust this vendor judging by my OWN experience.  I believe weddings we’re missed (FACT), I believe her reputation was hurt by this (at least on LIW) (FACT), I don’t believe she will take peoples money& run.  She does amazing work and thus far has been very responsive.  I think when approached respectably & not in an accusatory manner – you will get answers you seek. I could be potentially be affected by all of this – heck I was strongly considering whether or not to post this and eat a wasted effort, fast forward 8 months and we’ll see.  I know some brides are still taking the “wait and see approach” and refuse to post for fear that other brides will attack or pose an intervention, but here it is take it or leave it; It’s very easy to post links or accuse someone of this or that and jump on hype – I’m trying to make the most well informed decision for my case – taking in the bad and the good. I’ve heard anticipatory breach of contract being thrown out there but ladies (please note no harm meant just IMO)… unless the claim is not solely based on the responses from this website and  there is substantial follow-up with brides in person (meaning an actual witness who can testify in favor) - not just email, or a strong fact checking of your resources, and if the effort to see Gina in person has been made (more than once and not just a phone call) well then best of luck!! 
There’s still the pending desk appearance if any one is interested in attending, unfortunately I can’t make it otherwise I would be there.  Anyone who plans on going – please feel free to send me an fm as I am interested in this outcome as well… Though my wedding is in may – I’ve been very concerned, I went to her house – I mainly reside NYC and visit my parents in Suffolk county every so often on weekends (it was an actual effort to go to her place of residence TWICE!!)… I figured if someone were to show up at my residence (place of business) &  yell at me and attack x 20- I probably would freak and avoid the circumstance as well… or at least take some time in responding… so I approached matters the PC way… She claimed something so I followed up – i.e. she claimed she was working on a wedding this past weekend, so I confirmed with the bride and went to see the reception flowers for my self – basically – I laid everything out – I called out the facts, here’s what it is  - now go...  The best attack is a good defense.
 
Best of luck to all those involved. I hope this helps shed some clarity in an otherwise tipped balance scale. HTH.

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this just sounds like so much drama. I wouldn't want to go with her. btw the dwi said a 41 yr old didn't it? how old is this woman? if she has a young daughter I bet she's around that age. so someone with the same name and around her age got a dwi? come on. all smells like BS. plus the person is from queens and that's where she is from?

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Posted by summerbride20

Gina is trying to salvage what she has left... that doesn't mean you should feel obligated to stick by her side. If you believe in her that much, great! Good luck to you. Otherwise, I would still be worried up until the day that the flowers wouldn't come or still wouldn't be amazing enough to go through all this work and stress. I never needed to go to my florist beyond my sample and final payment and they were great. I couldn't imagine doing all this detective work and hounding to feel safe with a vendor. She is costing you money in phone calls and car rides and aggravation.

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I agree with that. when it comes time to get my flowers I imagine so much will be going on I won't have time to do any of that. I just want to pick something out, pay and be done with it lol.

Taunita that was well thought out but any reputable and responsible business has a backup plan. I myself am using an independent vendor but she has so many florists who can step in if need be and shes insured for these problems. Any business would have contacted the brides she broke her contracts with. No court will side w her on this.

Also, a business would refund the deposits to wary brides to salvage her future business. Why cant she do this? Bc she spent the $.

And why is her website down? And why is she avoiding everyone she hasnt provided what she promised to? And why did she say she would be at a wedding and not show up anyway after this happened?

Is she that clueless why she was removed ad a vendor? Bc LIW doesnt want to recommend someone who will not provide promised services. It makes them look bad to be associated w her.

If you want to trust her based on service she provided in the past fine. But i think you're in for heartache. I think shes broke now and i think once the lawsuits start coming in shes done and youll be out a florist. This is business not playtime.

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Posted by Taunita

 so I approached matters the PC way… She claimed something so I followed up – i.e. she claimed she was working on a wedding this past weekend, so I confirmed with the bride and went to see the reception flowers for my self

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Taunita, is this bride on LIW?