After looking for hours at invitations, FH and I showed his mom our two choices. Her response, ' they aren't fancy enough. Don't stress over the invitations, you'll find something'..... I DID FIND SOMETHING!!!! Luckily FH backs me up. He said mom, christine likes the one's she picked out, and she wasn't stressed out until just now.... !!!
Katie&Chris2006
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I'm sorry! Remember...your day, your way!
Mrs. dleeny
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ah yes... I remember ..... I learned quickly during my wedding planning to not ask for opinions.
ETA: that's why there is LIW - ask the opinions here!
futuremrsGafforio
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Lol, let me see if I can find pics of both invites.... I can always count on you ladies!!!
BellaEyes
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oh please, it's your day..she should not even had said anything negative about the invites. It's what you like that counts. Don't let her stress you out.
angnick
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who cares what FMIL thinks..
jada2destiny
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It's your day and I think that whatever invites you've decided on are just fine
futuremrsGafforio
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I know, thats just me though. I try to please everyone and i am getting stressed out!!!!
jada2destiny
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Posted by futuremrsGafforio
I know, thats just me though. I try to please everyone and i am getting stressed out!!!!
You have to always remember that...
'You can't please ALL of the people ALL of the time'
You don't need this stress before your big day and your FMIL should know better. You have your FH on your side and at the end of the day that's the only other opinion, besides yours, that will count for anything
goodluck
BellaEyes
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hey Angnick! I think we have the same feelings on the FMIL situation LOL
futuremrsGafforio
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Thanks ladies, now I need opinions... I know it is hard by just look at a picture, but here are the two invites:
If you cave on this, she'll be on you like nobody's business.... !!!
Sounds delightful by the way...
futuremrsGafforio
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bump for opinions!!
mrszg2be
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Tough toe nails!
R&J0806
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i'm sorry to say but she sounds exactly like my pain in the @ss FMIL. If I were you, I'd find a (nice) way to say 'this is my wedding and these are what I like.'
Blu-ize
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They are both very nice. Go with your gut.
I would prefer #2.
Screw them! Get you what you and FH want.
futuremrsGafforio
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Thanks, like someone posted above, my day my way!!!
mskittynj
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I know people say all the time it's your day do what you want. You just always gotta keep it in mind. People aren't going to agree with your decisions but tough....Honestly though, the only people who are going to keep your invitations are your immediate family members (mom, sister) Evryone else will eventually throw it out! so don't stress over it sweetie it's not worth it in the long run! And BOTH invites are really NICE! whatever you pick you'll be making a great choice! XOXOXO Kitty
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i like the 2nd one more, but both your choices are fine!
Don't give in to her and don't let her affect your decision, YOU're the one getting married, not her.
