So I was just informed by FMIL that someone needs a new invitation sent to them. They were upset that the invite came in the husband's name, not including the wifes, which I can understand, but I was never told he was married.
So I ask why cant she call and say that they are both invited, and given the circumstances with my mother, that accidentally the name was left off?
'well, her husband ripped it up. Send them another.'
OK, am I wrong to be upset, hurt and TICKED off that I am being demanded to send another invitation to a couple that I have been waiting for 3 weeks for their RSVP, to find out 26 days before the wedding 'HE RIPPED IT UP' Who the heck does that.
I am so livid right now. If it had been a month ago, not so big an issue. 3 weeks before, being told that the invitations I HAND MADE was ripped up, and I HAVE to send another invite to them, am I wrong to be going through the roof?
rdubs
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Ugh I am SOOO sorry to hear that. A guy that rips up a wedding invitation is not someone you even want at your wedding! Is he going to rip up his menu when he doesn't like the main courses?
Its2Snappy
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I'm sorry, but there would be no way I'd send them another invite.
Iluvpoodles
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Do not send another one. And tell FMIL if she wants him to have another one, she can make it herself. I wouldn't waste an ounce of energy on them which includes even calling him. Who is this ah%#$? Do you even know him? If you don't actually even if you do tell FMIl to deal with him.
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seriously, thats insane. do you think that your fmil is lying about him ripping it up?
Future Mrs P
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OMG!!! What the heck is wrong with people!!! Do NOT send another invite. Get the number and call, but thats it. Who tears up an invitation, honestly?!?!!? I would never do something like this, even if I wasn't going to go I still wouldn't tear it to pieces!!!
kris_gets_hitched
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I don't even have any words for this one. Only
queensbride2010
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
That's really irritating ... so sorry you have to deal with it.
I would call and pretend I don't know that he ripped it up. I would say something about needing a final guest count for the RH and i need to know if he and his wife will be attending
he'll just give you a verbal RSVP ... your FMIL can hand-write an invitation and mail it to them if she feels so strongly about it.
ITA! Is he a 5-year old? Don't waste your money or time on another invite. Give them a call and get both names for the escort card.
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Thats the most ridiculous thing I've EVER heard. Dont send another one..they dont deserve it if they felt the need to rip up the first.
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I would call them, and basically kill them with kindness. Tell them that you understand why they wher upset, but that you don't know if you can MAKE another invitation in time. Just ask them over the phone if they are coming, he is the one that ripped up the response card, why should you repair HIS mistake? You are obviously the better person here. You took time out to MAKE the invitations, and I just looked at them, they are beautiful. WHo the hell does this guy think he is by ripping up something that was so important to you. He didn't even call to find out WHY you didn't address them to him and his wife, he just ripped them up. Secondly, it seems that he does not take much part in your FH's life since you didn't even know that he was married! Just be pleasant and the drama will blow over. Vent to US that's what we're here for!
DO NOT SEND THEM AN INVITE - THEY DO NOT DESERVE TO COME
PLAIN AND SIMPLE
I AM SO SICK OF PEOPLE WHO ARE ALWAYS PLAYING THE VICTIM...
vv117
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another case of the crazies! guarantee that the people who require 2 invitations are also the cheapest gift givers.
KerriJohnS
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This fool is childish. I hate that in adults... it's never attractive.
FallBride2010
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I would NOT send them another! Tell FH's mother to make one
islandweddinggirl
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i wouldnt send another one... that is soo rude..people ****
bluj786
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im sorry they are A-holes... and i think you should not send an other invite. and if they ask say usent it. oh well. they wanna rip it up like they are a 2 year old. scrw them!!!
Diana508
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I would also say that there are none left. Who does that? Sounds like a temper tantrum. That's the kind of person who will have a million and one comments about your wedding.
BriansWifey
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i honestly wouldnt send em one. how rude of em, fcuk that sh*t..... id be livid too!
Relish21
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wow..... I'd say no it's ok I don't want them to come anyway.... jk I couldn't really say that... but I'd say it in my head!
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dont send the other invite. they got 1, they are not entitled to another.
a few days before the wedding, call them to confirm whether they are coming. leave it at that.
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Posted by FutureCap
a normal person would have just repsonded with the correct names on the response card so you would know the correct info for escort/place cards. insane. i would not want to re-send either !
I agree! You should just send an empty envelope addressed correctly.There was nothing wrong with the actual invitation
