FMIL Strikes AGAIN!!!!

My FH and I were at his sister's house today for a BBQ. While we were there his sister mention that she is having an after party at her house AFTER MY WEDDING!!!! We're staying at a hotel and thought that people were gonna come back there for an after party! I didn't say anything b/c I want to talk to FH about it before I freak out.

NOW we get in the car and I was gonna bring it up but he says first.... 'So we're gonna have to find another hotel for me dad and step-mom to stay at.' FH's mom and dad have been divorced for like 20 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought we got over this the last time it was brought up, but I guess I was mistaken!

I'm just mad, because not only does this make more work for me, BUT I just can't understand that for ONE DAY they can't just stop being childish babies and think that 'oh well you know this is their wedding, maybe I shouldn't be a jerk!' I don't need this right now.

Not to mention that I informed FH's family YESTERDAY that my Aunt is in the hospital and we got news that she won't be coming back out. She's most likely going to die before my wedding and they have to pull this crap with me now!

Sorry about the anger... I just needed to vent.

First, I am sorry to hear about your aunt.

As for everything else, I think if people do choose to party after the wedding they will want to party with the bride and groom, so I wouldn't worry about that. And you most definitely should not worry about where FH's dad and step-mom stay. You provided accomodations and if they are not willing to stay there bc of whatever reason then they should do the research and find an alternate on their own!

OMG. You mean to tell me his sister is throwing an after party to your wedding at her house without even discussing it with you? Who does that? And his parents really need to get over it. For Gods sake, how can they have so much hatred for so many years. They sound horribly selfish and to think they would still cause you drama knowing what youre going through.

Im so sorry to hear about your aunt. Maybe you should have FH remind them what youre going through and tell them to ease up for a few fricken days.

i am sooo sorry to hear about your aunt
and i'm sorry that everyone is making things more difficult for you. I would freak out if i heard someone else was having an after party after my wedding if i planned on having one at the hotel..!! That would seriously bug me.
Do you want me to come kick everyone's @$$ cause i'm in a pi$$y mood and it would seriously do me some good to get my anger out!! LoL

Just keep thinking.. soon you'll be at your wedding having the best day ever..and no one is gonna be able to take away from how awesome it's gonna feel!!

Thanks for all the support ladies!!!

I think I didn't make part of the hotel thing clear. It's not FH's dad. He doesn't care. It's his mom being a NAG! Quick Story: FH's dad left him and his mom when he was really young. He didn't do anything for him after the time he was 6. When we had our daughter he called his dad to tell him he had a grandaughter. His dad has apologized and they've been working on having a relationship now and his dad is in love with our baby. FH's mom doesn't want her brothers staying at the same hotel as he ex husband. I hope that helps!

this is my new icon for you FMIL..................

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Posted by angl2001

this is my new icon for you FMIL..................

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lmaoo...that's hysterical... i'm sure we could all use that one at one time or another..lol

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

Thanks for all the support ladies!!!

I think I didn't make part of the hotel thing clear. It's not FH's dad. He doesn't care. It's his mom being a NAG! Quick Story: FH's dad left him and his mom when he was really young. He didn't do anything for him after the time he was 6. When we had our daughter he called his dad to tell him he had a grandaughter. His dad has apologized and they've been working on having a relationship now and his dad is in love with our baby. FH's mom doesn't want her brothers staying at the same hotel as he ex husband. I hope that helps!

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Ah, ok. Well, I mean I can understand FMIL's dislike for the guy then, but I still would think that everyone could act civilly. They will have to be on their best behavior at the wedding, so why would the hotel be any different. Sorry things are being made complicated for you!

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Posted by angl2001

this is my new icon for you FMIL..................

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I'm gonna get that put on a shirt to wear around her!

Oh AND she like wants to hang out with me this week to take the baby to get shoes.... and I was like I HAVE TO VISIT MY AUNT!!!!!! I told you that!!!!

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Posted by angl2001

look at u and your sexy pic!!! lol

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lmaooo..yea i was bored with my pic so i figured i'd spice it up a bit..lol

and we have things to do lol

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Posted by angl2001

and we have things to do lol

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We do have lots of things to do! We are busy people!!!!

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Posted by JACK808

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

Thanks for all the support ladies!!!

I think I didn't make part of the hotel thing clear. It's not FH's dad. He doesn't care. It's his mom being a NAG! Quick Story: FH's dad left him and his mom when he was really young. He didn't do anything for him after the time he was 6. When we had our daughter he called his dad to tell him he had a grandaughter. His dad has apologized and they've been working on having a relationship now and his dad is in love with our baby. FH's mom doesn't want her brothers staying at the same hotel as he ex husband. I hope that helps!

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Ah, ok. Well, I mean I can understand FMIL's dislike for the guy then, but I still would think that everyone could act civilly. They will have to be on their best behavior at the wedding, so why would the hotel be any different. Sorry things are being made complicated for you!

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That is exactly what I said to FH. I don't see why they can't understand this.

I am so sorry to hear about your aunt

I agree w/ you 100% that they should just get over it FOR ONE DAY. Why cant they stay in the same hotel on different floors. They WILL both be @ the wedding so whats the big deal with the hotel. If her family hates him, then grow up, just dont talk to him.

Did FH try and tell them to stop being babies about it? The only other option is to grab a box of huggies and some formula and block a seperate hotel, but you really sholdnt have to do that.

sorry to hear about your aunt!

oh Jeri! i'm sorry your inlaws are being a pain in the ***. and i'm very sorry to hear about your aunt.
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