FOCCUS Anyone?

BRIDEMICHELE Posted: Sep 17, 2005 05:06 PM

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Posted by summer06bride

Posted by BRIDEMICHELE

Posted by bell72206

Its not so bad but its kind of funny. After FH and I were done (they seperate you to take it) we were hysterical laughing about the questions. I'm scared of going over teh results with strangers!!

You go over them publicly? I thought they just kind of gave you the results to discuss amoung yourselves.

AT my church we were given the results and then told to find a place in the church to discuss our answers with our fh. No one but me and my fh knew the results of the FOCCUS.

Good News!

july06bride Posted: Sep 17, 2005 05:28 PM

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we called for our answers after we took test in JANUARY and the lady said to call back, and we didnt, and now i feel like its too late...soooo i guess we arent going over the answers

BRIDEMICHELE Posted: Sep 17, 2005 05:38 PM

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Posted by july06bride

we called for our answers after we took test in JANUARY and the lady said to call back, and we didnt, and now i feel like its too late...soooo i guess we arent going over the answers

Really? That's weird. Our church is making us all meet to pick up the answers.

july06bride Posted: Sep 17, 2005 05:39 PM

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to be honest, i dont think my church is all that strict with it, and we are out of state.... so maybe they are being kind, and if it turns out that when we get closer we MUST have gone over the answers i guess we will have to i want to, its just that its so late now...i feel dumb calling

esb980 Posted: Sep 17, 2005 08:23 PM

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I think pre-cana sounds fun! It makes me wish I was Catholic!

bell72206 Posted: Sep 20, 2005 05:28 PM

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Hi All,

Sorry I didn't post sooner. Been crazy busy!! Anyway, going over the FOCCUS results was a snap. We got there at 6pm and met the lady that also runs our pre-cana. She made us go into a room with other couples and we all said a prayer then she gave a speech about FOCCUS and why they do it, yada yada yada. Then they give you back your original answers and 2 copies of the results, then seperate you so you can ponder the issues on your own first and then you and FH sit together and go over what issues came up. It was really painless. But they give you a copy of the graph not the actual results and I don't really know what we are supposed to do with it, if we should keep it or throw it out? I don't know if they will ask us if we have it when we start Pre-Cana and if they will ask to see it???? Oh well. Not bad at all but glad it is over with!! One less thing to worry about.