What was everyone's experience with FOCUS? I was very dissappointed. I thought at the end we would have the opportunity to go over our answers....to see what we disagreed on. Instead they just gave us our scores. I thought this was supposed to enable us to communicate. How can we communicate unless we know what we disagreed on.
SweetCin704
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I think every parish is different, ours didn't even give us the option of doing it & I had friends where they went over each answer together (w/ the priest!) & made comments about each one.
billandme
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ours is opposite. our priest will sit down with us and discuss what we should work on and stuff like that..........
donegal419
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Posted by MTLom
What was everyone's experience with FOCUS? I was very dissappointed. I thought at the end we would have the opportunity to go over our answers....to see what we disagreed on. Instead they just gave us our scores. I thought this was supposed to enable us to communicate. How can we communicate unless we know what we disagreed on.
I know some parishes then take your FOCUS scores and give them to your Pre-Cana leader who will process the results with you so you can talk about everything.
MichLiz213
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Ours didn't give us our scores, but after the test, we got into the car and it got us talking about stuff we hadn't thought of before. So even though we haven't received our scores yet, it opened up some communication for us.
butterfly20
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they told us they would review it with us, they never called us, we contacted them 2 or 3 times to follow up and they kept promising, and said that not to worry cause the results probably were fine anyways...
yet my dh answered certain questions yes(regarding to my family) and they still didnt redflag it
