For all my REAL 09ers

I'm sorry, I really am, if i sounded like a complete biatch in my response to a post tonight but i will:

a. not stand for girls having babies out of wedlock being put down like that

and

d. not share my opinions whether or not a thread asks me for them or not

Again, I'm sorry but I feel I am *highly* intelligent and VERY capable of making my own decisions for myself. I hope my comments on the thread I am writing about have HELPED people... marriage is WORK! (again!) You can not plan to lie to your fh or tell a bunch of girls you intend to just to see their reactions.

I know this may seem like a silly online message board, and most of the time it is, but I in no way want ANYONE to think that they are wrong/slutty/going to hell/having no way to pay for their OWN wedding if they do not make choices ontheir own

DO YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR FH? THAN YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY AS ME!!! except I do it in the PRIVACY of my own home and not in my daddy's house who expects me to be so holy.


Again,. to my real girls, I am very sorry to have offended you or subjected you to my beliefs and I in no way criticize you for going against them!



Have a lovely night!

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry, I really am, if i sounded like a complete biatch in my response to a post tonight but i will:

a. not stand for girls having babies out of wedlock being put down like that

and

d. not share my opinions whether or not a thread asks me for them or not

Again, I'm sorry but I feel I am *highly* intelligent and VERY capable of making my own decisions for myself. I hope my comments on the thread I am writing about have HELPED people... marriage is WORK! (again!) You can not plan to lie to your fh or tell a bunch of girls you intend to just to see their reactions.

I know this may seem like a silly online message board, and most of the time it is, but I in no way want ANYONE to think that they are wrong/slutty/going to hell/having no way to pay for their OWN wedding if they do not make choices ontheir own

DO YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR FH? THAN YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY AS ME!!! except I do it in the PRIVACY of my own home and not in my daddy's house who expects me to be so holy.


Again,. to my real girls, I am very sorry to have offended you or subjected you to my beliefs and I in no way criticize you for going against them!



Have a lovely night!

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artfully stated and I wholeheartedly agree with you

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Posted by KristiAnn923

I have no idea what happened. What thread is this about.

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I'm with you and trying to find it BUT I still can't - help us out!

I found it ... It's the thread about 'For Those of You Who Don't Live with FH'.

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Posted by RobNCyn

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Posted by KristiAnn923

I have no idea what happened. What thread is this about.

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I'm with you and trying to find it BUT I still can't - help us out!

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Ahh read the thread about living with FH before getting married

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Posted by WinterGrl09

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Posted by RobNCyn

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Posted by KristiAnn923

I have no idea what happened. What thread is this about.

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I'm with you and trying to find it BUT I still can't - help us out!

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Ahh read the thread about living with FH before getting married

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I got it - thanks! I think that this whole convo HAS gotten out of hand - Let's not fight - let's have fun!


Everyone is entitled to their own opinon! If you don't like what someone else says - then don't listen to it!

Think about it - after your wedding - how often are you (or the person you may be fighting with) going to come on to the website?

Angela,

With you 100% I value your posts and input and i firmly believe we are all entitled to opinions and I value all opinions as I remember they are not right or wrong- just opinions. Keep up the valuable posting

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

Don't worry Angela, we know you are not crazy and we know you are a nice awesome person. Sometimes frustration and ridiculousness can make us very emotional. I totally get it and I am with you 100%. I found the thread offensive. We know you are fantastic. don't worry.

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I agree and I don't live with FH but I want to - and I did find things offensive too but I don't take these things too much to heart. Angela, I agree you are a great person and I also do not think you are crazy. You voice your opinion - that's what we are here for, but if someone offends you just remember - Do you really know this person? Don't worry about it.

Don't worry - Be happy

Im just getting caught up.... read the post.. all I can say is WOW... the level of ignorance and insensitivity was a bit much for me, I had to stop reading after the post that said WHY GET MARRIED SINCE ITS JUST ANOTHER DAY...

Ugh. So much drama. It's the internet, people feel they can say whatever they want. I'm on your side.

Weddings are special no matter what the circumstance, it's 2008 not 1948, everyone has different situations, end of story.

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Posted by MrsInglima

Ugh. So much drama. It's the internet, people feel they can say whatever they want. I'm on your side.

Weddings are special no matter what the circumstance, it's 2008 not 1948, everyone has different situations, end of story.

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hahah love it..youre absolutely right!

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Posted by MrsInglima

Ugh. So much drama. It's the internet, people feel they can say whatever they want. I'm on your side.

Weddings are special no matter what the circumstance, it's 2008 not 1948, everyone has different situations, end of story.

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i second you. weddings are special and yes we are all diff and in diff situations- nicely put!

The thread was pretty offensive. Basically i felt that she was saying that since i live with FH then there's no point in me getting married because we're technically not 'starting' a life together.

Why start a thread that will make people mad? I would defintely not criticize anyone for not living with or living with their FH. It's in poor taste to do so.

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Posted by WinterGrl09

The thread was pretty offensive. Basically i felt that she was saying that since i live with FH then there's no point in me getting married because we're technically not 'starting' a life together.

Why start a thread that will make people mad? I would defintely not criticize anyone for not living with or living with their FH. It's in poor taste to do so.

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I definitely agree with u