For all my REAL 09ers

Original post by MrsDtoBe09

Mar 30, 2008 12:56 AM

I'm sorry, I really am, if i sounded like a complete biatch in my response to a post tonight but i will:

a. not stand for girls having babies out of wedlock being put down like that

and

d. not share my opinions whether or not a thread asks me for them or not

Again, I'm sorry but I feel I am *highly* intelligent and VERY capable of making my own decisions for myself. I hope my comments on the thread I am writing about have HELPED people... marriage is WORK! (again!) You can not plan to lie to your fh or tell a bunch of girls you intend to just to see their reactions.

I know this may seem like a silly online message board, and most of the time it is, but I in no way want ANYONE to think that they are wrong/slutty/going to hell/having no way to pay for their OWN wedding if they do not make choices ontheir own

DO YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR FH? THAN YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY AS ME!!! except I do it in the PRIVACY of my own home and not in my daddy's house who expects me to be so holy.

Again,. to my real girls, I am very sorry to have offended you or subjected you to my beliefs and I in no way criticize you for going against them!

Have a lovely night!

dazies1011 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:04 AM

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I love you Ang no matter what!!!!! You had to say what was on your mind, dont worry about it.

MRSin2009 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:12 AM

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Angela you are absolutley right and really that post was just rediculous and crazy! Your wonderful!!

longislandlibrarian Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:12 AM

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i totally missed something..... don't know what's going on but I love my 09 girls.. and now how intelligent and wonderful they are

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:24 AM

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I <3 you Ang!!! Those that know you, know you're not crazy so dont worry about it hun!

WinterGrl09 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:25 AM

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Posted by missjones2007

Posted by WinterGrl09

The thread was pretty offensive. Basically i felt that she was saying that since i live with FH then there's no point in me getting married because we're technically not 'starting' a life together.

Why start a thread that will make people mad? I would defintely not criticize anyone for not living with or living with their FH. It's in poor taste to do so.

I definitely agree with u

Thank you!

JnA823 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:40 AM

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Posted by Cannizzo12509

everyone has their own situation, and who are any of us to critisize (i know i spelled that wrong) or judge each other. This site is supposed to be fun and to make our day that much more special. If anyone is here to judge publicly they should find somewhere else to go. I live with FH and I am proud, and my day will still be the best day of my life, and the beginning of a 'NEW START'.

I agree with you. I live with FH (in my parents house). I am looking foward to becoming one and the joining of our families. Even if I didn't live with FH I would feel the same way. We had certain situations that made living together the better decision so that's what we did. Everybody's lives are different so nobody should judge one another.

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Mar 30, 2008 12:00 PM

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Posted by MRSin2009

Angela you are absolutley right and really that post was just rediculous and crazy! Your wonderful!!

I second that!!!!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 01:46 PM

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Thanks ladies. I dont like to start trouble but this girl was just asking for it.

Just Cindy Posted: Mar 30, 2008 01:59 PM

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I totally agree that we all have our own opinions but you should not offend those who differ in the way they live their lifes. I live with FH and with whole heart believe it has made us a better couple and when we ge married it will add another dimension to our relationship.

We should respect eachother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 02:21 PM

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Didn't read through all of the responses but here's my theory, I hope no one else said it:

Unless you're a virgin, you don't have the right to judge people for not saving something until they're married

Even if you ARE a virgin, you STILL don't have the right to judge people for not saving something until they're married

You can have your own opinions on the way you want to live your life, but you have no right to judge other people for living their life in the way they feel comfortable

And this is coming from one of the ladies that doesn't live with FH yet

JMO

VickiR510 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 03:45 PM

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Hey no problem! Everyone has their own thing & thats why this forum is great. It helps out those who actually may share in the same beliefs taste or whatever! I believe in always being completely honest. Wether or not you like my answer is something in itself. But never is it meant to behurtful. And if youa sk fo rmy oopinion you will hget it! I LIKE THAT!

Utterhappiness Posted: Mar 30, 2008 03:49 PM

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wow...what did i miss?

stephlovesseyi Posted: Mar 30, 2008 05:25 PM

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Posted by Cannizzo12509

everyone has their own situation, and who are any of us to critisize (i know i spelled that wrong) or judge each other. This site is supposed to be fun and to make our day that much more special. If anyone is here to judge publicly they should find somewhere else to go. I live with FH and I am proud, and my day will still be the best day of my life, and the beginning of a 'NEW START'.

Well Said Girl!!!!!!

PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 30, 2008 08:48 PM

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Um, Angela...

DO NOT WORRY. Anyone who has been on the boards knows that you have to be one of the most genuine people on here...Espesially to me when I first joined (i never forget kindness)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone is allowed to get upset once in a while...

plus...just think of it this way... this was bound to happen sooner or later (the topic) and it would have ended up the same...

and as I can see...alot of us <3 U!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 08:51 PM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Um, Angela...

DO NOT WORRY. Anyone who has been on the boards knows that you have to be one of the most genuine people on here...Espesially to me when I first joined (i never forget kindness)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone is allowed to get upset once in a while...

plus...just think of it this way... this was bound to happen sooner or later (the topic) and it would have ended up the same...

and as I can see...alot of us <3 U!

aww thanks I'm feeling all emotional now!

PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 30, 2008 08:53 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by MrsFazz2B

Um, Angela...

DO NOT WORRY. Anyone who has been on the boards knows that you have to be one of the most genuine people on here...Espesially to me when I first joined (i never forget kindness)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone is allowed to get upset once in a while...

plus...just think of it this way... this was bound to happen sooner or later (the topic) and it would have ended up the same...

and as I can see...alot of us <3 U!

aww thanks I'm feeling all emotional now!

Don't worry...
Seriously... all that matters tomorrow is that those who will be walking you down the aisle and in your life for the rest of your life know you... and how you are...

I remember the day of my chat-go-bad...and i let it bother me for a week..DONT DO IT! lolol

egem523 Posted: Mar 30, 2008 11:26 PM

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Don't worry. That girl was a constant contridiction since her first post. I think you said what everyone was thinking. (I know I was when read about changing the name). Anyway hopefully something like will not happen.

FutureMrsLV Posted: Mar 31, 2008 12:24 AM

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I missed it, darn!

Vineyard72509 Posted: Mar 31, 2008 12:45 AM

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I love the fact that you came on here and told it like it is GOOD FOR YOU!!!

I can't understand why ANYONE would try to bring negativity to this site... it makes you have to wonder how happy they really are ~ don't let it affect you though. I've been dealing with this alittle and its not worth letting your heart beat faster when you log in because your afraid of a mean FM or reading something negative in the postings... This is supposed to be the happiest time of our lives ladies!!! Those people are NOT WORTH one second of it