?? for any newleyweds who thought they would be hysterical at their wedding.....

Original post by Mrs_C_in_'07

Jun 24, 2007 10:47 AM

Did you? I mean that is actually my greatest fear. I def don't want to be sobbing throughout. Obviously some crying here and there but I'm so scared to be hysterical for every aspect. Like now, when I envision my self walking down the asile and seeing FH for the first time, or taking our vows, or our enterance or first dance.....I cry. And that's just now!

But when I talk to some of my friends who got married they said that you gets so overwhelmed that you really don't cry as much as you thought. But a lot of my friends are 'cryiers'. I am a HUGE cry baby!

So for any newleyweds who are cry babies like me and thought you'd be hysterical all day.....were you? And please be honest so I know exactly how many boxes of kleenex to bring that day!

NY031978 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 06:59 PM

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I am a mess.....I so thought id be a wreak! But honestly my nerves got the best of me...and I didnt cry at all! 1st time was on my way to the church and that was over a card Alex got me!
Then I didnt tear up at all....totally not like me!!!! I did get a lil emotional on our 1st dance only bc he cried. How mean is that?! But I was a mess when I danced with my dad!!!

danielle19755 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:05 PM

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Im a HUGE crier, but there was so much going on I didnt

sugarkube4 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:52 PM

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I cry over commercials and newspaper articles and everything else.. and my eyes were completely dry for my wedding.. Don't ask me how I did it, but I did.. I actually felt peaceful.. and a 1/4 of a valium didn't hurt either!!!

Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:57 PM

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Posted by sugarkube4

I actually felt peaceful.. and a 1/4 of a valium didn't hurt either!!!

Heather11207 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 11:19 AM

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I was sure I would be a crying mess the whole day, but I didn't cry at all! I was just so excited and happy I guess it kept the tears at bay. I got a little teary right before I walked down the aisle, and I got choked up when I said my vows.
Oh, yeah, my sister made me cry during her MOH toast.
That night, after DH was sleeping it finally all hit me and I BAWLED!!

shelby34 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 11:25 AM

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I am a very emotional person and cry at anything wedding related...esp. when I see a bide walking down the aisle to her FH. But, at my wedding, I only got a little teary eyed during the vows and the hands blessing. Other than the, I was fine...
You most likely won't ball at your wedding because you are almost too overwhelmed to really feel it. Yuo are also very aware of all of the people watching you.
I guess I just didn't have time to process everything enough to cry!

DNicholes Posted: Jun 26, 2007 11:33 AM

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I didn't cry when walking down the isle & I was pretty surprised about that. I held back tears when I said my vows & I bawled when I danced with my Dad haha.

I was so happy to be married to the love of my life that instead of crying the smile on my face never left

imas98 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 11:37 AM

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Everyone was betting I would cry ! But I did cry during the ceremony....But after that nothing but smiles & fun !!

kristi0001 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 12:43 PM

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I thought I would cry, I mean I can't even watch a wedding story or go to someone elses wedding without crying so how would I not cry at my own wedding? Well I was fine, surprisingly clam.........then............my daughter who is three and was the flower girl walked down and threw the flowers and did such a perfect job and that got everyone going, everyone cried (I should add she would not even walked down the aisle at the rehearsal so no one was expecting her to actually do it)......so while I walked down the aisle I was crying (looked like I was going ot a funeral) but then I got up there with Joe and when I looked at him, I just seemed so perfect and I felt like it was only he and I and I felt completely relaxed and no more crying, it was PERFECT!!!!!

Tobewed07 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 12:55 PM

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Posted by MJDoc12

i am soooo bad when it comes to crying about the wedding, i was convinced i was going to be BALLING the entire day. however i only had a few moments of tears. right before i walked down the aisle--a tear or two shed. and then during the ceremony, only at the end when we were announced husband and wife cause i was just so damn happy to hear it! it actually became one of my fav pics from the big day--my officiant took a pic and you can see the tear under my eye. (i look upset here, but i'm really not--i'm just so overwhelmed that he's now my husband)

i surprised myself and did shed some tears during our first dance, again cause i was just so damn happy!

otherwise, i was fine all day. i think cause DH and i did pics beforehand and saw each other before the ceremony, is the reason i didn't cry so much.