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For girls doing Vienesse hour

Original post by Espo22

ok so yesterday at the wedding, they do the VH which was great btw, but i also felt like hmmm already? but i just thought ok guess time really flew...well after the VH most of the people left even fh's whole family but Fh and i stayed bc he wanted to drink some coffee first...well they take the tables out and then the lights go down again and music comes on and there was about an hour left. The bp and a couple of the younger friends and then their immediate families were there but like i said mostly everyone left, fh and i did dance a little after the VH and then we even left.

This has me thinking now, so is the VH gonna end things early and kind of change the mood of the party. Or are some people doing it as the last hour and nothing after? and then when i thought it was gonna end with the VH i started thinking to myself, is this how i went to end my wedding? i'd rather end it with everyone dancing and partying

i still like it though and when i brought it to FH he said no we have tohave the VH, we already added as an extra but until yesterday i didnt think of this aspect at all. Its funny bc i paid so much attention to things i didn't before and now i have alot to think about lol.

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

Re: For girls doing Vienesse hour

It could be b/c it was a Sunday. My FILs usually leave a party after the VH on a Sunday. Sometimes as soon as the cake cutting. (a little annoying IMO- but they both work early)

It could also be that once some people start leaving- people take it as a cue to get out. This happend at our e-party and FH was upset. I ddin't care b/c I was TIRED.

But, thanks for bringing it up- It's definitely something to look into. Our wedding ends at 5:30 pm so I definitely don't want it to end at 4:30
Espo22 Posted:

Re: For girls doing Vienesse hour


Posted by ChristineAaron08

It could be b/c it was a Sunday. My FILs usually leave a party after the VH on a Sunday. Sometimes as soon as the cake cutting. (a little annoying IMO- but they both work early)

It could also be that once some people start leaving- people take it as a cue to get out. This happend at our e-party and FH was upset. I ddin't care b/c I was TIRED.

But, thanks for bringing it up- It's definitely something to look into. Our wedding ends at 5:30 pm so I definitely don't want it to end at 4:30



yeah definitely make sure to keep an eye out on this and tell your friends and close family from ahead of time so they know not to leave also lol

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