For those of who didn't or aren't going to make their minimum

MayBride2010 Posted: May 05, 2010 10:16 PM

For those of who didn't or aren't going to make their minimum

....so - what are you going to be asking from your RH? Fh and I will be between 10 and 15 below our minimum (we are at a 38% no rate)

joctorre Posted: May 05, 2010 10:53 PM

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Probably nothing since we have so many people we want to invite!!! So we'll just invite them!!!! (I don't know how to do the B-list tastefully, though....)

MayBride2010 Posted: May 05, 2010 11:02 PM

Re: For those of who didn't or aren't going to make their minimum

Posted by joctorre

Probably nothing since we have so many people we want to invite!!! So we'll just invite them!!!! (I don't know how to do the B-list tastefully, though....)

lol - seriously. I would want to send out invites - but my rsvp card already says respond by 5/2 - which has already passed. (we totally didnt think we were gonna be in this position). can we ask by phone (probably tacky, I know)

soonT0beMrsD Posted: May 05, 2010 11:05 PM

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hey weekend twin, my count is almost the same as yours !! im still waiting on about 10-15 people

my min in 150 and i will just make it. we had a lot of no rsvps too

quirkybride Posted: May 05, 2010 11:12 PM

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I wonder if people are saying no more in general and if they are if it's because of the economy.

BriansWifey Posted: May 05, 2010 11:15 PM

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ask em for addititonal dessert if ure not having a vh. a chocolate fountain? more time for ch? money off ur total bill??? additional entree option?

saralee1978 Posted: May 05, 2010 11:33 PM

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Is there anyone invited without a guest who you would now want to bring a guest? Call them up and tell them they can bring one.

My cousin told me I could bring my boyfriend to the reception while we were in the receiving line because too many people cancelled last minute....phone call might not be as tacky

pipermaru Posted: May 05, 2010 11:38 PM

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wow looks like we're all in a similar position

invited 318, so far only have 180 definites (including 5 kids but not including 10 vendors), waiting on 28 to rsvp... our min is 200

we're gonna ask them to either lower our min or throw some stuff in

Lsorrent Posted: May 05, 2010 11:55 PM

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We might ask for one more upgrade, or we'll just ask a few LIW lovelies to fill some seats.

I have 184 yes', 20 outstanding, and my minimum is 200. My RSVP date was today.