? for those of you who were dumped by another man before you met FH.
AllJoy
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? for those of you who were dumped by another man before you met FH.
Looking at things today, do you ever want to thank that guy for ending things? Just think if he didn't break up with you, you would've never met the wonderful man that you are marrying this year.
melissas28
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DEFINITELY!!!! I was in a realtionship where the guy's parents didn't know about me (interracial relationship that they would have disapproved of). FH was a close friend of mine and saw me through the break-up. After I started dating FH, my ex-boyfriend had the balls to tell me it was a rebound relationship. Rebound my butt. .... Ten of the happiest years later and we are getting married! And when I think of my ex, I have to say thank you. Because if I hadn't been in that relationship, I wouldn't know how good I have it now.... nothing like spending the rest of your life with your best friend!
and having his family accept you for who you are, and treating you like family!
AllJoy
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I didn't answer my own post. I sure do want to thank those men (there were two of them).
AllJoy
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Posted by melissas28
DEFINITELY!!!! I was in a realtionship where the guy's parents didn't know about me (interracial relationship that they would have disapproved of). FH was a close friend of mine and saw me through the break-up. After I started dating FH, my ex-boyfriend had the balls to tell me it was a rebound relationship. Rebound my butt. .... Ten of the happiest years later and we are getting married! And when I think of my ex, I have to say thank you. Because if I hadn't been in that relationship, I wouldn't know how good I have it now.... nothing like spending the rest of your life with your best friend!
and having his family accept you for who you are, and treating you like family!
That is nice that your FH's family treats you like family.
vmystique33
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I think If i saw any of my exes I would beat the crap out of them They were all as$holes I could write a book about all my bad experiences
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uuumm he ll yeah!!! Long story but I was nearly enagaged before FH. Lets just say everything happens for a reason. I needed to get to know myself and grow up and when it was right met FH . Now I can't wait to be married and am so ready.
JessieC
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Posted by sunflower13
uuumm he ll yeah!!! Long story but I was nearly enagaged before FH. Lets just say everything happens for a reason. I needed to get to know myself and grow up and when it was right met FH . Now I can't wait to be married and am so ready.
Exactly!! Everything really does happen for a reason. And i always am saying thank g-d it didnt work out with that creep!
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All the time! I thank GOD he broke up with me! I would have maried him and been miserable! Also, he forced me to really get out there and date lots of guys. I was able to discover what I wanted and what I didn't want from those experiences. One of the best things that ever happened to me.
camarogirl42482
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Posted by sunflower13
uuumm he ll yeah!!! Long story but I was nearly enagaged before FH. Lets just say everything happens for a reason. I needed to get to know myself and grow up and when it was right met FH . Now I can't wait to be married and am so ready.
I was engaged before my dh but the guy I was engaged to i wasnt really physically attracted to. He was a really great guy he always did right buy my daughter and always put her first. but I didnt want to kiss him or anything else, because to me it was like kissing a brother. But then i meet my dh who is very much like him and the physical part is there. lol to much for him to handle. lol And i agree everything does happen for a reason
April Liane
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wow... it's so funny that you posted this because I think it all the time. I really just want to send him a big thank you note! Turned out that the girl he cheated on me with got pregnant and they split up ... now he has a kid and an awful relationship with the mother - jackazz.
portjeffbride
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the other guys were all train wrecks....
FH is great....
HamptonsBride
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almost every guy i dated dumped me! haha... that's because i was never strong enough to take the initiative and just stuck it out even when i knew things were bad....i always say I don't have that feeling of 'the one that got away' with ANY of them. And i also know i learned alot about myself thru all the others...and although there was alot of heartache, i'd do it all again to get to where i am now. It also gives me the perspective to know how truly wonderful FH is, when i think back to all the other idiots.
gpurple
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wow- GREAT that you started this- yes- I DO ( and we do) think about this
same here- treated like TOTAL CRAP before, cheated, lied, etc etc
ITS AMAZING that when you are in something so bad, you don;t see it....
now- MARRYING A WONERFUL AMAZING GUY!!! FH ~!
yeah, i'd like to kick the crap out of the ex, his sister and HIS MOTHER- !!!!
PegaLega
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But of course...I love running into them!!!
gpurple
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AUUGHHHH
I would HATE running into the ex- just reminds me of the SH** I put up with ~~~
Thank God we are all happy now..................
diva7531
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Posted by vmystique33
I think If i saw any of my exes I would beat the crap out of them They were all as$holes I could write a book about all my bad experiences
you and me both hun!!! FH told me each and every time, they weren't good enough, I could do better, so on and so forth. FH was there for me when I broke up with my ex. It was the first time I saw himas something other than a friend. He saw ma as many things over the 10 years we've kown each other. Fortunatley I always came back to a person he really liked! He's one of the best 2 things that ever happened to me!!!
MF9282
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Yes!! He definately did me a favor. We were together for 5 months and I was so into him, he basically had the upper hand though I foudn out on Xmas Eve that he cheated on me with this schank from HS..... In conclusion.... Thank you schank
Hahahah
Aug07OFCbride
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i thank the Lord ALL the time for allowing my previous engagement to end!! It was definitely the wrong path. Thank God the Lord knows best and was guiding me all along. My FH is def the man for me!
Kathryn
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i wanted to and i did!!! but in a very nice way - did not bring up any bad stuff...it felt great!
vintagegirl
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OMg speaking of exs mine found me on classmates.. asked me how I was.. then asked me if he was invited.. i was like no!! and ended the conversation with saying ' I hope your dress burns on your wedding day hahahaha and logged off AIM' WHO SAYS THAT ???? the nerve.. I can't thank him enough for breaking if off with me..
