I know there have been posts like this before, but there are a lot more formers now
what (if anything) do you regret about your wedding?
what do you think you could have done without or what do you wish you would have added?
Mrs. dleeny
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Posted by prncssrachel
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I think we had EXACTLY what we wanted in our wedding. Our day was seriously PERFECT. From the weather, to my dress, to teh cake, to the music. HOWEVER.......
If I had to change one thing, I would have changed teh deacon who married us. He could barely remember our names, even though we met with him a million times, and he made a mockery of our ceremony. My grandfather almost got up and punched him, and my dad had to hold him back! (I recently just found this out). But I do feel bad for the deacon, as I think he make have dementia or alzheimer's.
omg what did he do to make a mockery of it? omg
First of all, he started with an anti-woman joke. Basically something about wives being naggers and husbands being workers. Then he was calling the bestman by JT's name. He would start a sentence, then completely trail off. Then he was standing up by the podium thing on the altar giving the homily, and I guess the light started to flicker, and he stopped what he was saying and said, 'Wow, this light keeps flickering, hmm, but I won't get off track by it,' then he would start a new sentence, then go back to, 'This light is REALLY flickering now.' THEN he never pronounced us husband and wife, and never said 'You may now kiss the bride.' INSTEAD.....HE kissed me before JT could. Then I just pulled away and said to JT, KISS ME, KISS ME! Because the deacon was about to send us down the aisle. It was at such a weird angle, we don't even have a picture of our first kiss I wondered for a while if we were even REALLY married
ETA: Here's my first kiss as a married woman. I was kind of hoping it would have been JT, and not some old guy!
