At christmas dinner FMIL says and so blah blah blah asked me when your shower was..but i hadnt planned on inviting her..but i just didnt know what to say, so i said it was Feb 11th and yada yada yada...
i niuged FH and excused myself, went to the bath roomand i was HYSTERICAL CRYING.
i am so upset.
Anyone else feel like..
i was dreaming about this since a was a little girl and nothing is working out just like i pictures it..and while i realize that things dont have to happen like my 7 yr old dreams, im just occasionally disappointed. i really REALLY REALLY wanted to be surprised and she RUINED IT
im so sad
VogueBride
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SO my FH spoke with my mom , and i spoke with her later...and it deffinately is Feb 11th, n one was trying to fool me. but i feel so much better after talking to me mom , so made me realize how special the day will be and most importantly how much all my freinds and family care about me and the day will be 100% special anyway. i am also starting to realize that just because i had a dream when i was 7, it doesnt mean thats how things have to turn out and they will be special and wonderful just as they are!!
ok...i feel i have grown from this situation and thats what matters right??
OK GOOD!! heehee
kissy27
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That is all that matters! Mom's know best & she is 100% right! No matter if you know or not, your shower is still going to be special & you will be surrounded with the ones that really care & love you !
FallBride05
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I actually helped pick the date for my shower (I hate surprises and that was at the height of my wedding stress).
And although I knew the date, when I walked in it was so exciting to see all my friends and family, it really was like a surprise still.
leese
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Posted by VogueBride
SO my FH spoke with my mom , and i spoke with her later...and it deffinately is Feb 11th, n one was trying to fool me. but i feel so much better after talking to me mom , so made me realize how special the day will be and most importantly how much all my freinds and family care about me and the day will be 100% special anyway. i am also starting to realize that just because i had a dream when i was 7, it doesnt mean thats how things have to turn out and they will be special and wonderful just as they are!!
ok...i feel i have grown from this situation and thats what matters right??
OK GOOD!! heehee
i'm glad you feel this way now. i told you... you will 100% not feel like 'oh....but I knew...' I just promise you.
It's one of those things that you stress about, but in the end it didn't matter.
