~* Friday, June 3rd 2011 QOTD *~

Original post by Kuklitsa143

Jun 03, 2011 05:46 AM

Morning ladies

Happy Friday
Happy 9 Month mark - Bennetta2012 and Michelle 214

Who has been your *rock* through out the whole wedding planning? Who do you turn to during the stressed times? I know most of you will say FH but who else has been your *rock* (if applies)?

FH is always there for a good laugh when I am about to breakdown and cry. I love him for that. BUT my Brother has been so active and so amazingly great with all the wedding planning (shocked, I know). Any questions or issues, I check with him LOL

Edit:

Happy Birthday FMIL in heaven !!!

wishingwell1230 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 10:58 AM

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I was just saying the other day to FH I am SO lucky because all my bridesmaids have really been there for me throughout the planning process. It really depends on timing for which one of them I go to but I have gone to all of them at least once and they have been sooo supportive, each in their own way. I feel so fortunate to have such wonderful friends!!

And of course for the really stressful breakdown moments, its always FH who is there for me.

SEB102707 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 11:44 AM

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I would have to say besides FH, It would be my MOH along with my other best friends and mother. Most of them come to every appointment and was there for every reception hall we looked at. They are all truly amazing, and I love them to pieces!

mjm2012 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 12:35 PM

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It's definitely been my Dad. He's much more even tempered with everything and I love talking to him about little details. He's just great with listening and checking in to see if I've made any progress with things. He's the best!

irisheyezrsmilen Posted: Jun 03, 2011 12:47 PM

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Besides my FH who honestly has been my rock, not to sound super corny but he has. My mom has been my biggest stress, she means well but we just always have and always will butt heads. And when I come home or get off the phone with her and am super stressed he knows just how to help

but my I guess my second support system has got to be my co-workers. Don't get me wrong my girls and SIL have been great too. But I see my co-workers everyday so they are just more 'available' and always there when I need to vent or am stressed or just excited.

so my FH has been my rock mountain, my coworkers are my Boulders and a my girls are my rocks

lindseynaggle Posted: Jun 03, 2011 12:52 PM

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Posted by pixietina

FH is extremely helpful of course. One of my MOH's has been really helpful going everywhere with me. Honestly though you 2012 girls have been an extreme rock/life saver for me. I don't know anyone who has gotten married to learn from their experiences and I learned so much from you girls. From tiny things to make my wedding special, to what vendors to book, and wedding etiquette. I would be such a hot mess if I never found this site and probably be rethinking all my decisions. You girls make me feel confident and loved! So thank you for being my rock!

you are so cute!

Of course FH has been great, but that doesn't surprise me, What has been shocking is how helpful my mother has been. We normally fight like crazy, she is very conservative and I am...not, but she has been surprisingly understanding. It's been great, but sometimes I want to ask where my pain in the arse mother went!

Bride in 2012 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 12:53 PM

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Besides FH, my best friend and MOH. She's the best.

lindseynaggle Posted: Jun 03, 2011 12:54 PM

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Posted by KristynLeigh

On that note.... Happy Birthday Mom!

its my mom's birthday too! thank you for posting this, I almost forgot to call her! oops

Jill52787 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 01:20 PM

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Definitely FH. He calms me down a lot!

roblisa09 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 03:36 PM

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Posted by Jill52787

Definitely FH. He calms me down a lot!

FH is great with everything. And my SIL and MOM and been great with me.

Alannah22 Posted: Jun 03, 2011 06:09 PM

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My rocks would have to be FH, my mom, and my grandma. All of them have been so supportive and helpful throughout this whole process so far. All of them have been so willing to go to appointments with me and give me their honset opinions on everything.

bella_bride Posted: Jun 03, 2011 06:12 PM

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Right now my FMIL and my FH are my rocks! I think after my sister gets married this summer my mom will be there for me more, it's just that right now she is really wrapped up in my sisters wedding.

And of course my LIW girls!!!