Had a few friends with benefits for just fooling around with. Only one that was a complete FWB..
curliegirl
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Yup!
AJsMommy122
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Yup!! One It was fun sneaking out in the middle of the night to go meet up with him. Esp. When coming home from a disaster date! It lasted about a year and then I caught him with a 'good' friend of mine. I guess I had feelings after all and couldn't look at him ever again after.
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Never had one. As Farah said, I could never separate the emotional stuff from the physical stuff.
Same here and always had a boyfriend long term the longest 7 1/2 yrs rahhhhh.
Monkeybride
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Never had one. Tried but I just get too attached and well that was just a disaster.
lillian771
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Yes I did...and it lasted for about 4 years give or take.
nferrandi
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I've messed around with a couple of guy friends through the years, but I never had sex with any of them. DH and I tried to be friends with benefits when we were broken up for a while, but there were too many emotions between us and we wound up getting back togther. lol!
sunshyne21723
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I had one for 5 years. Was my best friend. We lasted until he got married on me. What his wife doesn't know, and what I didn't know at the time, was that him and I were together the entire time they were 'dating'.
SIBride06
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Never had one. As Farah said, I could never separate the emotional stuff from the physical stuff.
I feel the same way
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Yup Absolutely did Many years to answer the question
i agree ...
glenda2004
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One thing is sleeping with a total stranger and another with someone you do like and are attracted to, but know for a fact you should not date.
I had a friend like that, we met at work he was cute and a womanizer I mean a total dog.
But he was soo cute and we got along fine. He made me laugh so much and one day he said he wanted to kiss me.
I said 'sure go ahead see what happens' so he did and I slapped him.
He kissed me everyday and I'd slap him after or Id just kiss him right back.
We kissed everywhere, cafeteria, bathroom, my cubicle, his, elevator, closets, his car and sometimes when I had to go to the cellar he'd follow me and we would make out there.
This went on for months and lets not even talk about Saturday mornings. We were the only ones coming in for a whole year. Man if those walls could talk
It was the best time and I do not regret it. I knew I couldnt date him he couldnt be with just one girl and I wasnt about to invest myself emotionally with him so I could get hurt. I had fun and we were really good friends, too.
We basically just made out thought, but after a year of that, I couldnt control myself and finally gave in and we did the deed. Then it started to cool off as he got a serious girlfriend and I also started dating someone.
Holy cow cant believe I just shared that.
Anyway, we still saw each other on and off when we werent with someone and it was fun.
