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From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

Original post by Mrs Z To Be

Every time I sit down and go over our spreadsheet, I want to throw up. . I know it will be worth it in the end.
RitasEngaged Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by mosh424

We never really wrote out a budget I am sure my parents did so I am not sure, But as of right now with RH, Flowers, Band, & Photo/Video checked off the list we are already at around 60,000. I am assuming the total for the wedding will be some where near $80,000-$90,000 for everything

Not including the Honeymoon (gift from FILs)



wowzers - I hope your not paying lol
mosh424 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by mosh424

We never really wrote out a budget I am sure my parents did so I am not sure, But as of right now with RH, Flowers, Band, & Photo/Video checked off the list we are already at around 60,000. I am assuming the total for the wedding will be some where near $80,000-$90,000 for everything

Not including the Honeymoon (gift from FILs)



wowzers - I hope your not paying lol




Thankfully no we are not paying for anything related to the wedding except our weddings bands
RitasEngaged Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by mosh424


Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by mosh424

We never really wrote out a budget I am sure my parents did so I am not sure, But as of right now with RH, Flowers, Band, & Photo/Video checked off the list we are already at around 60,000. I am assuming the total for the wedding will be some where near $80,000-$90,000 for everything

Not including the Honeymoon (gift from FILs)



wowzers - I hope your not paying lol




Thankfully no we are not paying for anything related to the wedding except our weddings bands



good for you - you are very lucky!!!!
MrsC2010 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by mosh424


Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by mosh424

We never really wrote out a budget I am sure my parents did so I am not sure, But as of right now with RH, Flowers, Band, & Photo/Video checked off the list we are already at around 60,000. I am assuming the total for the wedding will be some where near $80,000-$90,000 for everything

Not including the Honeymoon (gift from FILs)



wowzers - I hope your not paying lol




Thankfully no we are not paying for anything related to the wedding except our weddings bands



thats awesome!!
StaceYums81 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

Our budget is $20,000 but we CANNOT go over $25k. We got a GREAT price on our RH so thats how we're gonna be able to keep the cost down...

Our hall is only costing us $80 per person (including tax and tip. It's all gonna come down to how many people come. We're inviting around 130)


ETA -So far $11,000 we are spending on the RH and photos. I'm hoping that $9000 will cover our other expenses but we'll see. There's alot I didn't account for still...
SummerBride10 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by SummerGroom10


Posted by SummerBride10

At this point...I'm just crossing my fingers we stay under 50k



Oh really? If you think we'll be up near that then we'll be in for some trouble....



I thought thats what it was gonna be????????

You're the one whos been figuring out the budget thing.
SummerGroom10 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by SummerBride10


Posted by SummerGroom10


Posted by SummerBride10

At this point...I'm just crossing my fingers we stay under 50k



Oh really? If you think we'll be up near that then we'll be in for some trouble....



I thought thats what it was gonna be????????

You're the one whos been figuring out the budget thing.



Yeah we really have to go through it in more detail together.... I wrote down some things after I read this topic and came up with about 45k.... need to know if there is gonna be more...
MrsSoto Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

It should be 30K without honeymoon...this is the one thing that we are going to have to use some of the wedding money for. Its tight though...budgeting every dollar we have, I keep coming up with 27K by the wedding date so not sure at all where the other 3K is coming from. O God. lol.

So far completed, with RH, ceremony, flowers and photographer, we're down by $21,500 so Im scaredddd
LouMar2010 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

fh thinks 30k, i think 40k. should be intersting as we get closer and really start figuring out the numbers.

mzmahagony Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

we are trying to keep it at $15..key word 'trying'

mrsj2010 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

I definitely dont want to go over my budget. I will make adjustments as needed. We still are in the process of buying a home

AngeeM Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

Budget or not my ultimate goal is to pay as little as possible for the things that we want and to haggle and bargain with every vendor. I also have a great family that is all helping with as much as they can. My aunt is a floral designer so she is doing all my cp's and bouquets, my cousin is a wedding planner and my dad's friend is a dj and is offering his services at a huge discount, he would have been our first choice anyway. So we are very blessed to have great loved ones.

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

All I have to say is that I am trying my best to keep it around $15K to 17K. This will include everything and possibly the honeymoon. I have a small wedding about 75 ppl, I have a very small bridal party and I am having the wedding in either March or April (haven't decided yet).

I am limiting the # of limos, I am looking at RH's that will give me the most for my buck, but will have good food and look beautiful. I am trying to keep it simple and with the prices so far that I have been quoted, I think it we can do it.
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by SummerGroom10


Posted by SummerBride10


Posted by SummerGroom10


Posted by SummerBride10

At this point...I'm just crossing my fingers we stay under 50k



Oh really? If you think we'll be up near that then we'll be in for some trouble....



I thought thats what it was gonna be????????

You're the one whos been figuring out the budget thing.



Yeah we really have to go through it in more detail together.... I wrote down some things after I read this topic and came up with about 45k.... need to know if there is gonna be more...



Nichole2010 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

i seem to be lucking out on the wedding costs...it probably helps that im in PA as well..but this is how its looking...

my neighbor, who is a friend of my family is a good DJ around my area--- he is DJing for us and charging us only $200

my RH is so pretty and includes so much stuff..its only $22.95 for a plate of food and word on the street has it that is really good...im estimating about 300 people, so close to $7000 for the RH...it also includes a lot!.. it includes my cake ((they will make it anyway i want)) 22 types of cookies, decorations in my colors, table linens, champagne glasses for the wedding party and a special one for the bride and groom that has the date and stuff engraved, a cake cutter and server, a guest book, a throw away garter, and they will also include centerpieces and favors but i am doing those both my way cause i didnt like any of theirs...they clean up and give you all the extra food..

i got an amazing deal on my dress...the dress was originally 1200, and i had a coupon and it was on sale..so i got my dress, my $200 veil, my bra, and skirt thing that poofs the dress out more all for $905!

my pictures are costing $2500

so far, im up too a little more than 10,000 only!!!!

StaceYums81 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?


Posted by Nichole2010

i seem to be lucking out on the wedding costs...it probably helps that im in PA as well..but this is how its looking...

my neighbor, who is a friend of my family is a good DJ around my area--- he is DJing for us and charging us only $200

my RH is so pretty and includes so much stuff..its only $22.95 for a plate of food and word on the street has it that is really good...im estimating about 300 people, so close to $7000 for the RH...it also includes a lot!.. it includes my cake ((they will make it anyway i want)) 22 types of cookies, decorations in my colors, table linens, champagne glasses for the wedding party and a special one for the bride and groom that has the date and stuff engraved, a cake cutter and server, a guest book, a throw away garter, and they will also include centerpieces and favors but i am doing those both my way cause i didnt like any of theirs...they clean up and give you all the extra food..

i got an amazing deal on my dress...the dress was originally 1200, and i had a coupon and it was on sale..so i got my dress, my $200 veil, my bra, and skirt thing that poofs the dress out more all for $905!

my pictures are costing $2500

so far, im up too a little more than 10,000 only!!!!




yeah, things are definitely much more affordable by you...
sugarnspice Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

Maybe if we have the wedding there and then come back I can afford it!

Chrissy201 Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

I got married on 6/21/08 and originally our budget was set on 30K. We had a beautiful outdoor garden ceremony & reception with 70 guests in total, our wedding end up costing over $40K. It will be very expensive if you don't have any network of people you know as well as friends who can recommend you vendors to give you perks/discounts. This really taught me a lot about the wedding industry planning everything myself. I'm planning on taking a course to become a certified wedding planner in March. Let me know if anyone needs help or ideas with their wedding, I'll be more than happy to lend some time out. Best of luck with your wedding plans!

angelatp Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

I so don't wan to know.

Jenna_and_John Posted:

Re: From start to finish, how much do you think the wedding will cost?

We originally budgeted for 70k but I have a feeling it may come closer to 80 with honeymoon etc....just ridiculous our hall alone is close to 35k when I think of how much money that really is I want to throw up however it is the dream and I know it will be worth it.

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