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October Bliss Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:07 PM+
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FSIL's Dress

So, my FSIL (one of them anyway) went and bought a dress for the wedding. She apparantly has been bugging FH to get me to look at it and give it my 'stamp of approval' because she knows I don't want family members wearing the same color as my girls.

So, what color do you think her dress is?????
Nope, not white, but close - she kept calling it champagne, but to my eye it looked diamond white, maybe a very very light ivory. So, when she says isn't it pretty - I have to admit that it is, but when she made the comment about not matching my girls, I couldn't help myself, and told her I didn't want anyone to match ME either

Why do people do this????
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nickipa Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:09 PM+
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ahall04 Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:09 PM+
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The amazing thing about people is that they will never cease to amaze you! WOW... is she getting a different dress or staying with that one???
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BKtoLI Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:09 PM+
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Posted by October Bliss

Why do people do this????



Because they don't freaking think sometimes.

I have scrapped numerous gorgeous ivory/champagne dresses for that very reason.

BTW Andrew challenged me to a game of 9-ball saying he could kick my butt. So now guess where we're going in about 15 minutes??

Yup, Instant Replay....
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October Bliss Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:13 PM+
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Posted by ahall04

WOW... is she getting a different dress or staying with that one???



I have no idea. I don't know if my comment about not matching the bride made an impact on her. She just kept going on about the 'duster' that goes with the dress and how it 'makes' it. UGH!!
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Tria1110 Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:22 PM+
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Re: FSIL's Dress

I'm in a similar boat... just found out my FSIL's dress is the same color as the bridal party. And to top that.... my FMIL is wearing a dress she has in her closet already that she bought for FSIL's boyfriend's parent's renewal of vows!!!
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MrsH1156 Posted: Jun 11, 2006 09:49 PM+
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OMG! Sounds like maybe she wants the attention to be focused not on you but on her instead. I would tell her it's pretty but not appropriate. If she didn't take the tags off, she can return it!
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klingklang77 Posted: Jun 11, 2006 10:33 PM+
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OMG. who wears a white dress to a wedding, besides the bride?

oh and whoever mentioned instant replay, i work down the block from there, i used to go there alot. i liked it better when they had the bigger room.

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EmberLynn Posted: Jun 12, 2006 12:13 AM+
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Is she going to get the dress in another color?
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ssdbk Posted: Jun 12, 2006 12:28 AM+
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That is crazy!

I just mail ordered a pink dress to wear to a wedding. Well, in person it is very pale pink. Back to the store it goes! Gorgeous dress but I won't do that.
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ewickens Posted: Jun 12, 2006 09:20 AM+
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People can be a pain sometimes!!
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October Bliss Posted: Jun 12, 2006 12:29 PM+
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Posted by klingklang77

OMG. who wears a white dress to a wedding, besides the bride?

oh and whoever mentioned instant replay, i work down the block from there, i used to go there alot. i liked it better when they had the bigger room.




Only a crazy FSIL would wear white (or off white) to a wedding - translation - MINE!

As for the Instant Replay - either I mentioned it or BKtoLI mentioned it. As for the bigger room - yea, we miss it too. The Town of Huntington refused to give them a parking variance for 3 - yes 3 parking spaces so they were forced to shut it down since the capacity and the parking spaces didn't match. Don't even get me started.
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Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Jun 12, 2006 12:33 PM+
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i'm sorry that she's doing this. i don't understand it. when people do this kind of thing, don't they realize they are the ones that look stupid?!?!
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sunshine1813 Posted: Jun 12, 2006 01:02 PM+
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I'm not sure what you can say or do, but aren't there rules?? I would never in a million years wear white to anyone's wedding. That's like stealing the brides thunder. Not that I would think much of it being the bride, but it makes me laugh that people just don't think.
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MrsStefan Posted: Jun 12, 2006 01:04 PM+
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OMG!! I would be so mad. Did she say she would exchange it?
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TheBigDay Posted: Jun 12, 2006 01:53 PM+
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