Ive been having issues at work with one of my managers. For those that dont know, I work at a restaurant/club in the city as a waitress. I try to stay out of his way because when he gets angry, he gets verbally abusive. He has even told me to, 'Get the Fcuck Out'. Because he was angry about something. He apologized the next day and I continued to work there. He still continued to find little things to pick on me about and last night was the last straw. He yelled at me for putting a pair of shoes in a drawer. And says it was 'F uckin stupid of me' I didnt get it at all so I had an is-he-serious look on my face and he says 'Its not f uckin funny dont laugh' I wasnt laughing. At that point, I was done. This isnt the first time he has spoken to me this way and he speaks to all the girls there that way, so I gave my two weeks. Im sick of coming home and feeling like ****.
I feel a little irresponsibe that Im leaving a GREAT paying job but I have faith Ill find another job. I had an open call today at a new club thats about to open so pray for me GIRLS!! I cant afford to go broke a few months before the wedding. I hope I did the right thing. I just feel like it was either the money or my sanity and you all know which one you would choose. Sorry so long.
ant n tilde
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yay i am so proud of you - you definitely made the right choice!
Mrs. V 2008
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good for you! He has no right to treat you that way..he should be reported! jack ***
thelastMrsG
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I went through the same thing and I completely understand. My old boss used the 'F' word like it was 'the' or and'. The company liked me so much they offered me a new position and sent him to classes for anger management. I know my case is rare because I am still close with my old boss, but it was me who broke the camels back.
You are in my prayers to fimd something better. The pay may not be the greatest at first, but you will e better off in the long run
SoontobeMrsMc
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Good for you. No one should allow someone to talk to them way! You did the right thing! You will find something else.
hannahshim
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omgggg you work at One Little west 12?? I was just there for my bday!! I cant believe the manager is like that!!!
When were you there?! I was probably working cause I work everyday! lol. Did you have a good time?? Its a fun place, cool atmosphere. The manager is just a miserable *******.
i was there 10/12~ I had alot of fun~ you may not remember because there are alot of people but we were a party of 8(7of us were korean).
It looks like you had fun! Im glad. I love the food there. Although I do eat it way too much at this point. Did you stay all night??
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It looks like you had fun! Im glad. I love the food there. Although I do eat it way too much at this point. Did you stay all night??
noo I really wanted to but people had to leave and they said they had a reservation after us at 10:00pm so a few of us just went to go drink at my sisters house. I wanted to stay for the dancing~
did you find another job?
trinisweetness
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Damn girl,
You def did the right thing. Sanity is more important!! Its hard when you need the money and its a good paying job but you did the right thing...whats the use making $$$ and felling like sh*t!!
Good luck and I hope you get this new job if not that one, something better will come your way.
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I did it too..It was the best damn day of my life.
I had an abusive boss and realized that they needed me a hell of a lot more than I needed them.
But I took being unemployed really seriously. I got up everyday at 9 am, got dressed, had breakfast, looked for work, went to the post office to mail resumes and never let a doubt get in my mind, because I knew it had to get better--there was no way it could get worse... Now, I couldn't be happier at my new job. :)
