Getting married tomorrow and feeling depressed...

Renee615 Posted: Jul 26, 2007 07:54 PM

Getting married tomorrow and feeling depressed...

I don't know why I am feeling this way. Two weeks ago I was so excited that I couldn't wait for this day to come, but now, I feel so depressed. I don't know if it's because I am not happy with the way I look (I had two years to lose weight and I only lost 9 lbs because I have no will power) or if I am just feeling low because I have planned for so long and it's now coming to an end. Plus I feel like a lot of little things are going wrong. I'm not even looking forward to tomorrow. Have any of you married ladies felt anything like this?

HamptonsBride Posted: Jul 26, 2007 07:59 PM

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I was really stressed the week before and did not get to enjoy much of my time beforehand....and got to bed alot later than i wanted the night before...but woke up the day of, in the best mood and didn't stop smiling all day...i am sure you will wake up feeling different!!!!! meanwhile here are some

Colette Posted: Jul 26, 2007 08:05 PM

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Awwww i'm sorry you're feeling a little low tonight, but i KNOWWWW it will pass and tomorrow will be a wonderful, joyous day!!! Its probably just what you mentioned, the stress and the planning are at an end, but just think, it's also the BEGINNING of a new life with FH!! BTW you are a GORGEOUS girl, (i peeked at your album)your weight is PERFECT, your gown is BEAUTIFUL, and this is not the face of a depressed young woman. Take a little quiet time tonight, go for a short walk if you can, do anything that makes you feel relaxed, and be good to yourself tonight!!! And if you're having a rough night we'll all keep you company and cheer you up!!
Beautiful Bride

ef922 Posted: Jul 26, 2007 08:17 PM

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You have FM....xoxoxo

MikeandLisa Posted: Jul 26, 2007 08:25 PM

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im sure everything is really built up to this... i hope you wake up tomorrow feeling so much better... also, i think 9 pounds is fantastic!!! and you took your time losing it, so youll be less likely to gain it back!! dont forget, whoever you were and whatever you looked like on the day your FH proposed, was the GIRL OF HIS DREAMS.

AllJoy Posted: Jul 26, 2007 08:34 PM

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I'm sorry you're feeling this way. You will have a great day. BTW, I think you look great. Congrats and enjoy your day.

melisjoe Posted: Jul 26, 2007 09:00 PM

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so sorry you are feeling this way!!!!! Tomorrow will be wonderful and you look beautiful!!!!!!!!!

Renee615 Posted: Jul 26, 2007 11:50 PM

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Thank you all so much for responding. I'm feeling a little better...maybe I'm just stressed out. You ladies have all been wonderful. Thanks again!

drpepper318 Posted: Jul 27, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hi Renee! Listen, you look beautiful! I know it doesn't matter what I or anyone says if you don't feel that way yourself, but I'm telling you it's true! I didn't lose all the weight I had hoped to lose either but you know what, in the end you will have an AMAZING day and you won't even have time to think about it. And I know what you mean about the day being over, I'm worried a little about that already, but you'll always have amazing memories that will last a lifetime and you're marrying the man you love!!!! This day only comes once, so don't feel sad!!!!! It's going to be GREAT!!!!!!

charisma Posted: Jul 27, 2007 12:23 AM

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oh dont feel that way tomorrow is going to be a beautiful day filled with so much love, joy & laughter...a start of a new chapter...trust me you will feel better tomorrow & don't worry your planning has just begun you have so many different things in life to plan now

JMM7876 Posted: Jul 27, 2007 09:39 AM

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Glad to hear you were feeling a little better...I hope you have a wonderful wedding day!! CONGRATS!!

monelwookie Posted: Jul 27, 2007 09:51 AM

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Posted by Renee615

Thank you all so much for responding. I'm feeling a little better...maybe I'm just stressed out. You ladies have all been wonderful. Thanks again!

you'll make a beautiful bride

Snickers76 Posted: Jul 27, 2007 09:53 AM

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You know what I think? I think that a lot of brides cover up their anxiety and fears of getting married with the planning. We put all of our energy into these little details and then once ll of the planning is over the real emotions start to come through and we don't know how to deal with them because we are supposed to be so happy. I think it is ok to feel a little blue. Just try to spend today on YOU! Get lots of sleep tonight as you will need to be very well rested on you wedding day. I wish you good luck!