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When a friend received our STD, we were told she was bringing her boyfriend with her and she was not invited with a guest....
Posted by angl2001
SO i am really looking for people to RSVP NO cause our guest list got out of hand....but i am shocled that people are RSVPing NO cause i didnt invite them with a guest. Its not like they dont know anyone there lol its fine with me i save $$ that way!! i am crossing my fingers for at least 40 NOs so i dont have to owe anymore $$ to the hall. I didnt invite anyone with a guest unless they were married engaged or a very long term relationship....i am not paying for people to bring joe schmo off the street into my wedding! its bad enough i hardly know some of the family memebers we invited lol![]()
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people just amaze me!
Posted by Teamhurldon
i would never expect anyone i know to not be allowed to bring a date.... i think theyd feel awkward at a wedding w/o one... i accounted for that though with my number of invites.... to each their own, good luck!![]()
Posted by Kerin2804
When a friend received our STD, we were told she was bringing her boyfriend with her and she was not invited with a guest....
Posted by babieblueeyez96
Posted by angl2001
SO i am really looking for people to RSVP NO cause our guest list got out of hand....but i am shocled that people are RSVPing NO cause i didnt invite them with a guest. Its not like they dont know anyone there lol its fine with me i save $$ that way!! i am crossing my fingers for at least 40 NOs so i dont have to owe anymore $$ to the hall. I didnt invite anyone with a guest unless they were married engaged or a very long term relationship....i am not paying for people to bring joe schmo off the street into my wedding! its bad enough i hardly know some of the family memebers we invited lol![]()
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OMG i feel the EXACT same way!!!i have a ton of single guy friends and god knows what chic they will pick up off of the street to bring to my wedding!!! i dont want a bunch of hoochie mamas on my dance floor!!!![]()
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I totally agree!!!!!! I would hate having to invite someone as a guest that i don't know from a whole in the wall..especially cause a lot of the guys some friends having been hanging out with are dirtbags...one started a fight at my bday party..
some people just dont take into consideration how much $$ you pay out for a wedding and how expensive it is to feed the guests! lol
Posted by angl2001
some people just dont take into consideration how much $$ you pay out for a wedding and how expensive it is to feed the guests! lol
I just remember my roommate from college being invited with a date to a wedding and not being able to find one and she ended up taking someone because he was able to drive her to LI and back to albany again. One of her friends knew him and she didn't know him before the wedding and she never spoke to him after. I didn't realize how messed up this was until I started wedding planning and that is why some people will not be invited with dates.
I completely agree! I even told my brother if he isn't dating someone seriously i am not inviting him with a guest. He just started dating a girl a month ago. Maybe it will be serious by the time of my wedding maybe he will be with someone else. I can't afford all the extras especiall when my mom is making me invite my dad's sister, which I have no problem with, but on top of that she is making me invite their two children who are 13, and 10 about. Here is the problem with that..she (my aunt) never even RSVP'd to my brother's wedding last summer..my mom had to call her. Now she wants me to invite these little kids (who I haven't seen in a long time and who I guarantee you don't know who their cousin Chrissy is) and she doesn't even RSVP. My dad said not to invite any of them, but Mom is afraid of a family argument. Good grief...I can only hope they don't come like they didn't to my brother's wedding.
Posted by angl2001
SO i am really looking for people to RSVP NO cause our guest list got out of hand....but i am shocled that people are RSVPing NO cause i didnt invite them with a guest. Its not like they dont know anyone there lol its fine with me i save $$ that way!! i am crossing my fingers for at least 40 NOs so i dont have to owe anymore $$ to the hall. I didnt invite anyone with a guest unless they were married engaged or a very long term relationship....i am not paying for people to bring joe schmo off the street into my wedding! its bad enough i hardly know some of the family memebers we invited lol![]()
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people just amaze me!
aww thanks for remembering lol we are getting htere!! 17 so far! lol
thats onbe way to keep the head count down!
im doing the same thing as you. unless they are married, engaged or long term no guest. sorry but its my wedding, im paying for it, too bad!!!!
