gift with RSVP 'no'

Caprica6 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 05:41 PM

gift with RSVP 'no'

Just got a check with an RSVP no. Do we send a thank you now or wait til after the wedding???

pixietina Posted: Apr 25, 2011 05:46 PM

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That is a great rsvp 'no'. I think I would wait until after or the week of the wedding.

b2b2013 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 05:48 PM

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I would send it afterwards. That was very nice of them though- I hope all of my 'no's' come like that!!

Im getting Married Posted: Apr 25, 2011 05:49 PM

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I had the same thing happen we just called and thanked them and will send a formal Thank you card after the wedding

Summer Bride 2011 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 06:40 PM

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Posted by Caprica6

Just got a check with an RSVP no. Do we send a thank you now or wait til after the wedding???

Just got a RSVP that said no; however, we were given $100. I think that was very generous of them

IrishAli Posted: Apr 25, 2011 06:44 PM

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I would send this out after the wedding

kdm822 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 06:45 PM

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I would sent it now .. knowing me i would forget and if it was me who sent it , i would probably be like how rude of them to not even acknowledge i sent one

Skinewyork Posted: Apr 25, 2011 09:57 PM

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Posted by kdm822

I would sent it now .. knowing me i would forget and if it was me who sent it , i would probably be like how rude of them to not even acknowledge i sent one

Definitely this.

linda_art Posted: Apr 25, 2011 10:00 PM

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This is so nice and we hope we are as fortunate. My impulse would make me want to send some kind of a nice thank you right away!

jovigirl414 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 10:01 PM

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I would want to send a thank you note right away, but at the same time, we are having special thank yous made post-wedding, and I feel they would deserve the formal thank you after. This one is hard to say ...

HSsweethearts Posted: Apr 25, 2011 10:54 PM

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I am keeping track of it where I will kjeep track of all wedding gifts and will send a thank you after the wedding

deeda1129 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 10:55 PM

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wait til after... if you are close, i was call and say thanks. If not wait til after when you have your pretty cards made up :)

Marchbride9 Posted: Apr 25, 2011 11:18 PM

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I would wait until after the wedding...just be sure to mark it down!

1112bride Posted: Apr 25, 2011 11:43 PM

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I think you should send a thank you now. Just like the check was mailed to you before the wedding, the thank you should be mailed out in a timely manner after receiving the gift. JMO.

rosatemp Posted: Apr 26, 2011 07:40 AM

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Posted by Im getting Married

I had the same thing happen we just called and thanked them and will send a formal Thank you card after the wedding

This

monamiestephanie Posted: Apr 26, 2011 07:44 AM

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Ditto. It's better to get as much as you can out of the way before the wedding, so you don't have to think about it later! The more you do now, the less you have to do later .

Posted by kdm822

I would sent it now .. knowing me i would forget and if it was me who sent it , i would probably be like how rude of them to not even acknowledge i sent one

Yankeeelove Posted: Apr 26, 2011 08:51 AM

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I would prob wait till after the wedding so you can send a thank you w/ a picture of you from the day.

LTrivitt Posted: Apr 26, 2011 12:24 PM

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We've had a few of the same things. I called and let them know we got it and thanked them.... sending a thank you card with pic after the wedding.

AudioLoveStory Posted: Apr 26, 2011 12:29 PM

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We are sending all our thank you's after the wedding.

MrsSx2 Posted: Apr 26, 2011 12:59 PM

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Send 1 small simply thank you now, and then another after the wedding.

I think its bad manners to not acknowledge a gift when you receive it (even if you plan on sending one MONTHS away).

JHMO!